Sex with Friends

personaly i like sex much better in romantic relationships, it feels alot more personal and deep.

 

To the OP, I think that it's fine for you to do this. And to everyone who disagree's it's not like she asked you to agree with her or to go out and do the same thing yourself. To each their own.

In my opinion open relationships are fine if both of the people are ok with it. Why not? With that said, it's not for me. I would be insecure/jealous/whatever you want to call it.

 

...sex could be more than just a physical act, and that's what it should be when you decide to have a child...

 

In regards to the original post in this topic, I truely agree. I dont know if its just because I was sick of dealing with my friends problems in their relationships or what, but I just dont want a serious relationship with anyone. It seems to me that as soon as you take that step towards being in a exclusing relationship is when shit goes down hill. You dont have to have sex with all your male friends, but if its a casual thing then what is the problem? One of my best guy friends and I are currently participating in the "friends with benefits" aspect of out relationship and have been for a year now. There has been no desire on either side to extend the relationship to something more exclusive and I personally wouldnt go for it if it ever was to come up. Having sex with friends is better than doing it with a complete stranger imo, just for the fact you usually know where they've been.

 

i have pertty much the same veiw but my girlfriend has to preaprove my extra sex she picks them out for me

 

i have done many of my friends,male and female,Sometimes you are just horny and they are there.we never date or get in a relationship.i believe in free love as long as it is safe.Some of my best lovers are good friends.

 

I agree, except I live in a small town in the MW, so it isn't easy to find people who share the same values or beliefs. Who also can look at sex as something that is fun and can relieve any tension or frustration one might have.

 

I would never have sex with a friend. Would never be that desperate.

 

I want female friends like you. I don't see anything wrong with friends having sex as long as they are mature about it and are clear that it's ONLY sex. If anything else spawns from that, then that's is on them.

 

true friend are a;ways their with a helpig hand

 

it can make things complicated no doubt.

a perfectly good friend can turn into alot of dounbt and weirdness between the two.
well alot of things can happen. but it deffinatly complicates things.

 

you're intellectualizing this far too much. copulating, consumating and the lenght of
your response sorta sounds like you are far too much into yourself. lighten up

 

I have done sex with 5 of my closest opositte-sex friends! Just one of them was a virgin when we did it for the first time! I once gave them all a blowjob at the same time, and they all facialised me allmost at the same time! It was cool and tasty:drool: ! Nowaday I have sex with a friend once a month.......usuallly another one han the last

 

Always wanted a fuck buddy,but was afraid to ask for fear of pissin' 'em off.I could emotionally handle it easily.

 

It's interesting how there are two factions of a relationship that is are balanced or unbalanced differently by different people. Two different things that consume the same resource can not be maximized equally at the same time. The existence of one marginalizes the quality of the other. It they are kept separate neither faction is marginalized by the other. It is impossible to maximize two different things with the same person.With the same person they will be balanced. We can have the best of both worlds but not under the same roof.Making sacrifices for the sake on one for the other proves which one you hold the dearest.

 

I 've got this friend and we've got everything in common. We have a great time just hanging out. I feel no need to ask her out or anything, but if she ever asks for anything... I would say yes right away. But as I said before, there is no need for us to be anything but friends.

 

i have a friend that ive always been kinda attracted to, but we just became too good of friends. well latly any time we talk he is always bitching about needing sex. i tend to fantisize about being with him, but when we are togeather its just....i cant go though with it! i dont know, its just, its scary putting yourself out like that with your friends. fear of rejection.

 

I agree totally.

 

I've always felt that it's best to only have sex with those friends you're pretty sure you won't want to hold on to for a lifetime. Otherwise, you're probably each going to end up with different partners, and it's going to make for some very careful manuvering. Most of the time, as soon as someone says, "Oh yeah, we did it a few times, but that was years ago and we're just good friends now," one or the other of the relationships is going to have to go.

 

To The OP:


I don't agree with you at all but if you like to have anal sex you wanna hook up some time?

I mean I've seriously stopped trying to get anal with women and I'm not a cheap guy, I mean I spend quite a bit for dinner an dates etc

So some free anal would really make me feel better. :jester:

Nah I'm just joking I'm fine thank you and all I can say is why don't you just become a prostitute? I mean I have nothing against prostitutes especially expensive ones because they're using their good looks to make a great living but women like you just make me laugh, you get fucked for free and you find nothing wrong with it.

You might as well make some cash off of your body if you're going to give it up like that.

Don't ya think?