I am 30 years old and in a steady commited relationship. We are very happy together and have great sex but something is missing... Like most men, my husband loves it when I blow him. Problem is I am not very good at it. I would love to get some tips so that I can improve this part of our relationship. I have three major problems with giving oral sex: 1) My mouth/jaw/cheeks/lips (from stretching them over my teeth) get sore after a very short amount of time (like I'm talking a minute or two). 2) I cannot stand the taste of his cum and retch everytime I let him release in my mouth. 3) I want to deep throat him but cannot seem to do it without gagging. I'm also not really sure what to do other then suck and move up and down on his dick. I know there are all sorts of tricks and techniques out there. If anyone can help me out or lead me someplace else where I can get the help it would be greatly appreciated.
Ok, I'll go first... Enjoy it. If you can relax and enjoy doing it, I'm sure you'll get better/feel better about it. Try to roll your lips in and over your teeth instead of just down and over them and don't force your mouth open, let his schlong open it for you, it should feel better for you (but I do like seeing nice full lips wrapped around a pole). If you start to relax you'll start figuring out what you like to do and what he likes. It's not just about sucking and up and down, do some nice licking and stroking and don't forget about the potatoes. A nice stroking while my potatoes get some luv is really nice and some ball-play while the main meat gets to visit the tonsils is really nice too. Look at him too, let him know you're having fun pleasing him. Definite turn-on. Bottom line is to just have fun. Fun and pleasure are what it's all about. Sincerely, One guy that really enjoys getting good head
Some of the best blow jobs I"ve received have not been all oral. There was a lot of stroking, licking, kissing, nibbling. The most sensitive part of my cock is just below the head...the frenulum. Thats where most of the good action took place. I love it when she looks up at me and our eyes meet with my cock in her mouth. I also love it when she just wraps her tongue around my cock. I guess it takes some practice to know exactly how to do it. Also, instead of taking me fully into her mouth, to prevent gagging, she puts her hand at the base and then it only goes in until her lips meet her fingers. If the taste grosses you out, then let him cum on your face or tits. Just lick, stroke, and suck him until he's ready to blow, then take it out of your mouth and stroke him to completion. You might even want to ask him to cum on you (rather than in your mouth, but don't say that last part) and he may get into it if he knows you like that. It can be part of a male domination routine, and some guys get into that. The important thing is to take your time, and to give him as much pleasure as possible. Hope this helps.
You need the book, Tickle His Pickle. Great tips. I got it at the following website http://yourpassionconsultant.com/consultants/kristingraziano/library01.php Good luck. This book is great!!
I wish my husband would let me suck him-I just have to fantasize about it (or about doing it with other guys). I'd love to feel a man ejaculate down my throat, and swallow it all and drain him dry. I'd really love to do it.
log on to pornotube.com or youporn.com and in the search engine's type in "blow job", "suck", "deepthroat" or whatever, once you've done this, you should see tons of short videos of women giving guys a good suckin'! observe what they do, copy them, experiment on dildo's, objects shaped like a penis or on your husband. hope i helped! good luck!
I have the book tickle his pickle-awesome book! My jaw hurts, also-but I've had plenty of practice with sucking that I know how to avoid that. When you're sitting, try having him put his legs up, you sit cross-legged with your legs under his-right in front of him. It's good because it puts less strain on you and he can see what you're doing. It also eases the jaw because when your head is down, your jaw relaxes more.
