I've had that problem bro...I tried to chat up this cute cashier that worked with me last year at a work party, and she just smoked my weed and left me alone...not a good thing
Oh but if you're of age, going to a bar baked out of your mind is the most fun you can ever have...especially after you get wasted!
I hear you, I used to be like that. Just try to chill out and just act pretty much as you usually would
you need to find some stoney girls, that way when you say somethin stupid theyre so high they just laugh
I don't have a problem with females and smoking, even if they are smokin' hot. When you get older you'll probably act differently around females.
Yeah man, you just described how I feel verbatim... That happens to me a lot. My friend Mandy is really the only female stoner we smoke with, and she is totally cool, and I have no problem being around her when I'm baked, but thats because im not particularly interested in her. Last year, I happened to see this girl I liked walking down the street, so I figured hey what a great way to score some points with this chick... so I pulled over and picked her up. Keep in mind this is after I had just left my buddies house after smoking for a couple hours. So when she was in the car, I would try and make conversation, and totally got nervous and all sketched out... I dont think I did too bad, and I'm not sure how much of it was just in my head, but yeah, weed tends to make me a lot more self-conscious when I'm around girls whom I am attracted to. It just makes me second guess everything I say or do, and that leads to more paranoia, and anxiety, and that seriously detracts from me being myself and trying to impress the girl.
Seeing as I am a lady, I blaze with ladies a few times a day. It's sweet, I put the mac on purrrrdy heavvvy.
Just lay the mac on so heavy they become overwhelmed, frightened, and eventually, give in to both the lovin' and the date rape drugs I've placed in their drinks.
The girl im with now doesnt like me being high at all. After three months with her i auctually smoke less. Everytime i smoke i have the words in my head to tell her what needs to be said but it comes out very wrong, everytime it seems. When im with friends or whoever its not like that. Something about trying to make impressions and smokeing is a bad idea. Smoke and chill, not smoke and think. Something like that anways. I feel ya tho on your post edyb123.
I love smoking with the ladies they show their emotions and are just fun when they let loose. It is a matter of just being relaxed and enjoying that super highway of thought and craziness women (especially when high) bring. There comes a point when you realize if you cannot be yourself you just kill the fun.
Ahh thats a hard one. For a girl you want to impress and have some good convos and what not, getting high is not the best. But if you have a girl you can cuddle up with and watch a movie and all that good stuff than weed is a great thing. It's really not an option till your past the awkward silence stage of a relationship...