What are your thoughts to this?

Well basically my girlfriend that I've been with CONSTANTLY wants to see me, like 5 days a week and that's including ALL WEEKEND 24hrs. She says any less than that then it's not enough for her. I've done that and I'm fed up of it. It's too much. I want to go out drinking with my mates but the problem is she insists on coming and if I tell her I want to go on my own she becomes moody saying that I don't want to be with her. She has these sorts of moods and I'm on the verge of saying "toodle-oo." I don't want to see her as much as 5 days a week as I like time for myself, 3 days is enough for me. Am I in the wrong or is she just too clingy?
She has some terrible moods for no apparent reason either, just petty little things. I'm seriously on the verge of getting rid. Any thoughts?

 

how long have you two been dating?
and yeah, thats waaaaaaaaaaaay too much time together imho. then again im not exactly a clingy kind of girl

 

If she's making DEMANDS,that's wrong right away.Sounds like she could easily smother your life and replace it with one she designs for you.Yikes!!

 

I've only been out with her a month and a half and I do seriously feel smothered. It's got to the point where if I'm constantly seeing her I don't even enjoy her company. I get bored of it. It's like she's desperate to get out of her mum's and dad's house and doesn't like being alone, as if she has very few friends or somet. The more we spend time with each other the more we argue and we've more or less just met a month or so ago. When I go without seeing her for 3 or 4 days I look forward to seeing her and she's really nice at the start of that but as the days go on and the minutes tick by her attitude shows that even she is seeing me too much even though she won't admit it. I told her last night that I was doing overtime in the morning this weekend and she said "so you're not spending time with me this weekend then?!" I actually would like to do my own thing lol, it's sickly and clingy. When I went "ummmm" she said "3 days isn't enough, if it's gonna be that then it won't work" and insists on bloody 5 lol. FUCK THAT. If this is the start then God knows what it's going to be like a few years down the line lol.

My preferred days of week seeing my girlfriend is 3/7
Hers is 5/7 and she insists on coming everywhere I go even when I tell her I'm going out with my mates.
She's contacted me today and I've ignored it until I've made up my mind as to whether I'm going to continue with it.

What are your recommended days of week? With my past girlfriends its always been 3, sometimes 4 now and then.

 

I suggest just be yourself and do what pleases you.Someone ,in turn,will be pleased with how you feel and what you wish to do.She just hasn't shown up yet.

 

I will be myself as of now. It's getting on my nerves lol. I personally think she's selfish. Maybe I treat her too much.

 

me and my bf never really had a schedule of when we were gonna see each other... when we both had free time we would. id go a little nuts if i saw someone that often and didnt live with them though, especially that early on in the relationship. my bf and i do live together now so we see each other every day but weve also been dating for a while and i have my own room with the right to kick him out when i need alone/private time

 

yeah im in a somewhat similar situation. My girl wants to see my everyday, thats 7 days a week, we dont always see eachother that much, but sometimes. we go to school together so it makes sense that i would see her there, but then she wants to do things after school every single day. and wen i do go to see my friends, she too gets all moody and sad and stuff and she calls my friends controlling, she's really hypocritical. actually my friend wants to see me everyday too, but thats a different story. but yeah, and its the same way how we get bored of seeing eachother, but its exciting wen we havent seen eachother in a few days. and she too never wants to be alone and just wants to get away from her parents. i guess u just gotta start taking control and do what you want, not let her control ur life. thats what ive started doing and its better.

 

She sounds too bossy and grouchy to enjoy any time..even just 3 days a week!

I don't know why I'm like this, but with my current boyfriend I want to see him constantly. When he wants to stay home and watch a tv program instead of hang out with me I take it as a personal insult...and no matter how much I try to rationalize these things, I still take them as insults at heart despite what my logical brain is telling me. It's no secret that girls are the more clingy sex typically..but demanding to see someone constantly is absurd! I want to be with my boyfriend constantly and feel bad when he doesn't want to hang out, but I'm able to realize that it's MY problem, not his. He's simply acting normal, and I'm simply being too sensitive. So when he declines a visit instead of showing my letdown emotions I try to respect his decision instead of making him feel guilty for wanting to do something else(normal)..even if inside it's killing me (abnormal).

I admit..the first few times he didn't want to hang out I cried to someone..and she made me realize that I was being foolish and selfish, and that him wanting time alone is healthy and normal, and that just because I want to see him all of the time now doesn't mean there won't be days in the future when I'll want to stay home instead of going out. And just because he doesn't want to see me all of the time doesn't mean he doesn't like me, is mad at me, is cheating, etc..it just means he doesn't want to see me 24/7. duh.

Try to rationalize these things with her. Make it known that you love the time you spend together, but you also value time with your mates, and have priorities and responsibilities in life that need tended to, and that it's in no way an insult to her, or code for "I don't like you/care about you".

If she isn't able to settle down with this behavior then it's a sign that she's unstable, horribly insecure, and/or immature, in which case dump her. The relationship won't be a fun one!

 

Ditch that crazy ho.

Unless she's bobbing your knob 24hrs a day. Then you might want to hang onto that one.

 

Get rid of her. That's waaaay too much time. You need your space too. If she can't comprehend that you also have a life then she's not worth it.