well to be more specific im just afraid of having sex i mean ive had it plenty with my gf but latley i just think something will always happen. were really safe i always use a condom and i take it out for awhile and then she jacks me off so there no way anything could happen but im still afraid i mean is it a phobia??
Fear of getting pregnant, or getting her pregnant, is a common thing for someone your age. If you are going to have sex at your age (and waiting a little longer may not be a bad idea), you are doing the responsible thing by always using a condom. But make sure that after you ejaculate, you clean yourself off carefully (water is good), especially your genitals and hands. This is especially true if these body parts of yours are going to go near her vagina again shortly after you ejaculated.
It would be soo nice if most teens thought like you did KGB. Dont be afraid. You are doing rite and playing it safe!
There's a difference between being cautious and being tedious. I don't advocate spewing semen on fertile vaginas like a sprinkler, but your woman's probably getting tired of it. That shit would drive me nuts. If you're in it fo' rizzle with this woman, ask her about getting on the pill. If her parents are all ooky, she can go up to PP and get 'em for six bucks a pop.
