How was your first attempt at gay courtship?

Tomorrow is gonna be my first attempt at coming out to and hitting on a gay friend of mine.

What was your first time doing this like?

 

It wasn't.

 

My first attempt actually worked. I met this guy at a party, and talked to him a little bit there, though not really flirting. Then after that, I started talking to him online, and we talked on the phone a little, and we met downtown and walked around for a while. I guess it just progressed normally.

Hitting on people is fine, as long as you don't get clingy.

 

Well , I'm not even sure you'd call that an attempt.

I got way too nervous to try.

 

Never really had a chance..

I never know if somebody is gay, and I don't flirt with straight guys for obvious reasons.

I guess I'm doomed.

 

Spectacular! I had been talking to this boy who was going to the same college as me, via Facebook for over two months, and once we had met here we knew within a week or so that we were both interested in each other. One night when we were stargazing, we kissed, and we have been in a relationship ever since! I'm quite surprised how well it has worked out, as it's for both of us, our first relationship.

Of course, this is after a terrible time when I discovered my homosexuality in high-school by falling for my friend, who is not gay.

 

I usually wait for the other person to make the move.

When I made a move it went fine.

 

haha, one time i randomly slept over at this girl i work withs house.
long story short, we ended up having sex.
i made the first move and she didn't seem to mind, so i guess it went well?
shes sleeping over again on friday, so i guess it did go well

 

All I really had to do was say "yeah, I'm bi" and girls were all over me.

What can I say? I'm a chick magnet.

Well alright, it was only like two girls but whatever. haha.

We dated for a month and it didn't go very well, but I don't regret it.

 

If I ever do even try, I know it'll be fucked up and I'll be turned down.

The problem is that at school im shy, awkward, and it doesn't help that I'm really tall and have bad balance lol. I just can't really be myself at school, and with people i don't really know well.

 

First attempt was a total disaster. I fancied the pants of this guy but after we went out for a meal i ended up having one pint to many and puked across the side of the table....that was only at the start of this year not long after i came out as gay.