hey, me and my gf have been sexually active for about 2 years, but we've always had problems. she recently went to the gyno (finally!!) to find out what the problem is, and she was told it was nothing serious but she has got vaginismus. she's had some counselling sessions booked (have yet to find out when the first one is mind), but i'd just like to know if anyone else here has suffered from this, what its like trying to deal with, and if you were successful in getitng rid of it and what you actually did to get rid of it! we've never had full penetration, so this explains why, and she always wants to finish quickly cuz she worries it will start hurting (which it normally does after a while), but now she knows she's got a problem she doesnt even rlly want 2 think about having sex until the whole problem is sorted!! and to my frustration she doesnt seem sexually interested at all right now so yup, no ANYTHING for me so ive had to resort to my right hand once again for ALL my entertainment
Vaginismus is an involuntary contraction of muscles around the opening of the vagina that makes sexual intercourse painful or impossible..... here is a link to some info on it http://www.answers.com/topic/vaginismus
