Yes... I think of sex....., and women and sex and so on. (guess that's how I found my way to this forum, ah... no, it was actually something about pot..oh anyway) As an example; I find it difficult, if not almost impossible to walk through a mall and not notice every lady I chance to pass. The smell, the look, the hair, skirt or jeans..mmmmm, a yard away, or fifty yards; I see them all, and they all briefly enter my momentary thoughts of love and lust. Women in all their varieties seem to posses a certain attraction for me...go figure...that's suppose to be the idea ...right? It's like some kinda perpetual spring fever that can, at times become a distracting factor during the course of a day for me. Some days it's like a relentless semi-madness that consumes me, other days are somewhat more forgiving, usually the day after sex that is....go figure; but it's still there in the forefront of my thoughts. It's not just that question... "how many times do you think of it a day", it's also, "how many people do think of sexually in a day"? For me, I sexually evaluate (sorry, ug term) almost all women I see in some way or other, I guess. Not a great way to phrase it, but that's what it is...kinda. And no, I'm not hardup, or undersexed, single or adolescent, just me...whoever that is today. So...."how many people do think of sexually in a day"?
I like the way you put that into words, because I can never find the words to describe myself in public places with women. I'm so easily distracted by women walking past. I feel exactly the same way as you do.
So, is it just a guy thing...resulting from excessive male hormonal stuff ; or are there really women out there, as bad as I am; and have to check out, evaluate, size up, analyze, anything and everything that may or may not be desirable or even available for that matter, that they happen to cross paths with?
........women are as bad as men, it is just they go about it at a much more s[size=-1]ophisticated level. They don't have stare with tongues hanging out like us. They most likly have checked you out and evaluted you, even before you noticed them. [/size]
I tend to think about particular guys rather than sizing up men I see on the street. Occasionaly I will note particularily sensuous movements or a dynamic personality, but I don't usually check out thier package right off. I will, however admit the occasional executive dysfunction when shirtless men with mountainous pecs approach me.