Sex is what we are created to do. to reproduce. think about it, we are meant to engage in sexual activity to keep the human race going, without it, we would be nothing. That is why i think the terms woman who are promiscuous are given are wrong. It is was we should be doing! why not? everything seems so over rated these days.
We are only given those names because men are ick. When they do something its ok but when we do it it's wrong. Sex isnt overrated for me.But still you shoould stick to one person as long as you can,and not sleep around. STI's are a bitch. And pregnancy isnt any better.
why though? i understand where your coming from...but what i am trying to say is you should think about what sex really is. Humans are just another "animal," we reproduce for the same reasons... i just don't see what the point of getting all emotional about sex is. I'm not saying go sleep around with as many guys as you want, but what i'm saying is people shouldn't get all serious about the meaning of it. When it comes down to it, sex is just sex. that's it.
Uh...yeah but we also have a brain...reason...and slightly higher feeling than "lets fuck" Our brains can tell us we dont NEED to go around fucking everywhere possible, as the human race is far from dying out, infact some would argue there is an overpopulation problem There are also so many millions of other things for us to be doin on this planet...and sex is all were here for? Methinks not. Im on a journey of learning and discovery and love making is only one of billions of miracles there are to discover Do what you want with your life, i wouldnt criticise as long as no-one was being hurt. But the entire human race is on this orb for far more than meaningless sexual encounters and producing new people who would also, according to your theory, be here to fuck eachother
Well yeah humans are just another animal. But we are intelligent enough to make a decision on if we sleep with someone or not. And we mostly fuck for pleasure than to reproduce.
Some of us have solved great mysteries through sexual encounters...some of us have felt their power, which goes beyond the wants of the flesh. Some of us have felt it as a union of souls, and other just know it makes them feel closer to people they care for Sex is such a complex thing. I really believe it goes beyond "must reproduce. Must reproduce. Fuck. Get fucked" programming. Infact for me it most CERTAINLY does, and i doubt im the only one
it's just my opinion. i did say though that i'm not syaiong we should go around fucking every person we can, all i was saying is that people make too big of a deal about sex than they should. no need to get bitchy.
Jeez, calm down...who said i was getting bitchy, ever?...i was giving my opinion too, and trying to explain why some people DO believe sex is "serious"...or not casual... Thats all Why so defensive?
ok. well it seemed liek you were jumpin down my throat or something. but maybe it's just becuase i was reading what you wrote, and that is teh problem, i can't see what you really meant. that is what i hate about computer conversations.
if we were just mean tto fuck, then we werent menat to be on birth cnotrol either and i dunno about you gals, but i love not being pregnant. i also love all the non-sexual stuff that we ccan do as wlel, like dream and paint an dplay video games and read and giggle/laugh/hang out together
DOPE, I agree that as animals we exist to reproduce. But I disagree that we are "just" animals. If that were the case, I would agree with your conclusion. Whether you want to come from a spiritual or a scientific direction (or otherwise), we are not mere animals. We give things around us value and create all kinds of constructs. They may be righteous or merely useful constructs, but I think it is a good thing to endow sex with more significance than it normally has for other animals. Following your strain of logic could lead to a conclusion that even rape is okay because it "facilitates" procreation. It is generally bad to be promiscuous because of the chance of picking up STDs. Also the choices one makes and standards one lives by says a lot about a person's character and integrity. This does NOT mean that people should be called names but is something to keep in mind as one goes through life. I think that if a person does not feel some sort of emotional connection to sex, then they are lying to themselves about something. Emotions are also animal responses/instincts, are they not? It is only natural to feel something when having sex - maybe love, guilt, lust.
Well, you can say that you just agree! lol! ( I first read " I love sex and boobs" but on second look, that was babies..not that far from it anyway, if we thinlk things through..) LOL!
I agree that women are slightly more scruitinized then men are on certain things...especially sex. I think people are really uptight about it is because we as humans can govern ourselves with a little self control. Yes, we are animals, but we are human beings and more than our cousins, the boinking bonobos!!!!
hold on a second. you say men give those names to women? this is a rumor and a stereotype. women call other women sluts. girls rag on eachother men just sit back and watch the shit you girls do and say to eachother. yeah men will call a girl a slut but those are the chicks who are getting double teamed in the backyard at a party.
women certainly are scrutinized more than men, and yes women do use those words out of insult. Either way, the topic is about sex. Sex and the human body are two wonderful things that should be shared and used...
Uhh, this has been something that's covered the span of humankind since it's rise. : ) And probably before us. I like to think about ohter mamals and beings that have their own sex flings and all that. haha. It's something that the most influencial seem to break down time and again. FUCK RIGHT THROUGH MISERY! If humans devoted most if not all of their time towards sexual trips and undertakings, no one would have time to go make a bomb at a factory somewhere. There'd only be enough time to check on the crops, take care of the cleaning and various other domestic projects, with any drawn participants, and the entire theme to make murder a sexual project, cuz the meaning would be completely unbased from it's originated context. When revolving around sex, we just simply tend towards the things that make more sense than less sense. A painted scultpure by a few individuals who were also inadvertantly prodding eachother promiscuously, seemed to have forgotten that mehtyl and white phospherus make a good mix for a buncker grenade, whereas when mixed with napalm can clearout a section of forrest, with hyper oxide smokescreen, where many inhabitants could be done away with. Instead josh knows that synthesized phosphate methyl dioxoanthracene are ingredients for the tone of red that stacy's lips get when their crossing with tongue play and tickling eachother. A color hue that is adorn many of crafts they do together while getting it on in whatever sense they choose... After enough time, the notion of gunpowder just kinda slips everyones mind since the "demand" for it, kinda falls off the scale next to a "need" for certain biological agents for people who unfortuanately go over board with partner mixing and need a medicinal "time out" for healing purposes. And since sex drive is a homogeous stimulation of the senses, an inducent can also be applied to overpower any premature departures by non fully healed patients... SO yeah, I agree with act on sex drive, and don't be close-minded. Your taste and personality are the ingredients of your possibilities.
This reminds me of when I lost my virginity. It was with a woman I got to know on the old CB Radio, back in the 80s. She was generally known as being an insatiable nymphomaniac. The thing was that I held the same opinion as she did that it was wrong that when a man gets plenty of sexual partners he's looked on as being a stud, but if a woman does the same thing she's considered to be a slut, and I always believed this to be an unfair form of discrimination. As it happened, she later said that she wanted to meet me so she could molest me. I never believed her for a moment, so I called her bluff. Anyway, she turned up at the arranged time, and to cut a long story short, she did just as she said, and molested me, despite my desperate attempts to resist (yes, I really did try to resist - I was a virgin & was terrified), but eventually my natural primitive instincts kicked in & I couldn't resist any more, and as soon as she spread her legs in that inviting manner, I was in there - none of the finesse of any foreplay - just pure instinctive mating. For a guy to be what is no less than raped may be a fantasy for many, it was all too real for me, and was, at the time, very frightening, but with hindsight I'm glad it happened as without that initial introduction to the world of sexual pleasures, I may well have remained a virgin to this day.
