What really makes me sad..(story)

When i see kids in my neighborhood live life without any love or kindness, there just out for themselves. The kids who were brought up with nobody loving them, so they turn to the streets and really act like someone there not, they just fail to realize how special they are. Im talking about the kids who just dont give a fuck. plain and simple.

Today, i ran into a kid(18, could easily kick my ass) who kicked the shit outa 1 of my best friends, for no reason. Anyways, i talked to the kid(not even worth my time talking to these types, but w.e i needed to do something for my friend). Anyways, i talked to him blah blah he said he was gonna fuck me up if i said another word. Before i knew it he called down his "boys" for no reason. When they got there, 1 of the kids immediatly started bitch slapping the friend i was with, so i stepped in the middle to try to stop and then.. BANG 1 kid punches me in the side of the head for trying to make peace. I got up right away and i was fine, it just caught me by suprise because i wasnt looking for shit exept peace.

Normally i would be pissed for getting sucker'd but then i thought to myself "my life is so much better than these kids, if they find pleasure in jumping/suckering kids to prove themselves there tough, then WHO CARES" I mean, i come home to a nice loving family that cares the world for me, and i wouldnt trade them for ANYTHING. There truly all i need in this lifetime, i dont need revenge. These kids are dirt poor with nobody who loves them(not even there own "boys") and really seem to serve no purpose for this world, so instead of being pissed off seeking revenge, i just laugh at these people who live in a dream world thinking there so great while im here typing on my computer in my room with the many blessings i have. I mean for those that dont understand the kids im talking about, these peoples lives ARE the streets, but me? I got much much more than that, so why stress over something so little?

-smokindude

 

Very good post smokindude, although i don't live in a big city, i do know they type of kids your talking about. It really isn't worth the time to get all pissed about the stupid shit they do, take all you have for a blessing, live life to the fullest, and for gods sake be happy

 

I guess I'm blessed with some type of leadership power or something. Nobody here would even think about doing something like that to me, and i'm not tough either. Though, I do see kids like that all the time and it's sad. They can't even enjoy a walk through the woods without whining about how much it sucked. Anyway, it was fine what you did, but if something like this happens again, don't take that shit. Even if they don't show it, they'll respect you for standing up for yourself or your friends.

 

We were outnumbered 6-2, or something like that. Theres not much i could do. Haha i actually got punched for sticking up for BOTH my friends, the one that got his ass kicked and the 1 that was getting slapped, so a sucker punch is worth it to prove my loyalty to my friends. Im just glad the cops didnt get involved, and we came out of there almost 100%.

 

while i totally agree with you strummit, just because you don't get back up and look for a fight, doesn't mean you can't stand back up on your own two feet and just say fuck this i don't need it and bounce the fuk out...

Although i was always decent at boxing and even did a few MMA fights, plus a few "high-school" fights, im more of a peaceful person and would rather avoid a fight unless no other option is there. And i know plenty of other people like me are out there.

 

ok i'm just going to call you maniac cause I get lost when I'm typing your name.

I think I explained myself wrong. I still meant that you shouldn't get walked all over (although in this case it was probably smart. 6-2 obviously they aren't really tough enough to even hit you withough having to outnumber you), I meant that your friends will really respect you for taking that hit and not starting something bringing both of you into deep shit. If you don't think they are worth your time, they probably aren't, as you're in charge of your time =p. With people like this, I guess it's kinda up to you to decide if it's the time to fight. Either way, you stood up for your friend, and that's very respectable. Those guys will eventually learn they aren't gettin anything from harrassing you guys, get bored, and move on, or better yet, into a house with their money they got from working at waffle house.

 

Yea sorry I would have stabbed them. No one gets to push me or anyone I'm with around without the slightest resistance. I'm a fairly big guy so I can fight, but in case it's multiple guys beating on just a couple of us I have a knife.

Even if you don't want to use a knife because of the possible legal repercussions, buy mace. No jury in the world would convict a kid for using mace to defend himself and his friends (minors) from a number of 18+ guys (adult).

Be nice and jovial in general, but if someone hits you be sure that whatever your response is it shows them that you're not a mark or their bitch. Go for the leader and the biggest one (or if the leader is the biggest hit the second biggest), and I can assure you if you can damage them the rest of the bullies will run. Bullies are afraid of losing and if they think you may put up a half-decent fight they'll quit antagonizing.

 

i feel for these kinds of kids
they have nothing to look forward to
in one way or another their lives die before theyre 20
its ironic too because there is no need for people like this in society

 

I agree it's sad, but that doesn't mean they can walk all over you. Letting bullies have their way hurts them more in the long run.

 

Yeah, that bullshits happened to me before.

I just avoid those situations entirely now.

 

its sad reading stories about kids kicking the shit out of eachother. thats what sad.

you're guilty of that smokindude.

your post screams hypocrisy.

in last few months you posted a story about throwing bricks threw windows and jumping a kid. it doesnt fuckin matter if the kid was not liked. You say its sad to hear people beating the shit out of people yet you do the same thing. sheesh.

 

Actually i never jumped anyone. I fought a kid 1v1 for suckering me in the lip and making me go to the ER for 6 hours. I threw a brick through the window cause the kid ripped my friend off $140.

 

^you told us your friends jumped a few people for you... sounds like revenge to me.

 

Sounds like hes a hypocrite which does not surprise me after reading the article. In fact, I can't believe you wouldn't assume SOMEONE would bring it up.

 

I know actually what you mean.

I use to live out at our house thats in this little bum-fuck country town. The people there are just ignorant, it's like they're blocked from knowing or seeing anythign other than material object and they fight,steal,rape,shoot people and they just don't value life at all, not even thier own. I use to fight back when they'd try to fight me. Pretty soon I'd just luagh at them. They couldn't understand why I was luaghing or what I meant when I said it was just sad that'll you never know or feel what I do.



If I remember right, I thought he said he didn't ask his friends to jump the people.