Bit of an odd question

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by UpNComin, Aug 30, 2007.

  1. UpNComin

    UpNComin Member

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    I haven't officially cam out yet , but I've told a few friends and most other people wouldn't be suprised if I told them. I am a male , and I know I like men more than women but I realized that I don't often get boners from starring at men around me. Does that seems odd?
     
  2. SlickyPants

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    16 seems like a long time ago for me. I don't exactly remember how I was like back then. Random boners just don't spring up anymore for me. They used to but as you get older you'll control them. I don't remember what age that was for me though.

    Question: do you get an erection from starring at women?
     
  3. *Andy*

    *Andy* Senior Member

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    Dude thats perfectly normal. Getting boners from just looking at guys is probably more unusual than not. Of course, if you notice that a guy's pants are pretty tight and can practically see his cock through his pants AND you also find that guy seriously attractive and you don't get a little aroused, then maybe thats a little odd :p
     
  4. UpNComin

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    Thanks guys , and to SlickyPants , no I don't.
     
  5. Joey*

    Joey* Freaky Supportr Dude

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    It's normal,It takes more than just looking at someone for me to get hard espicially if they're not even naked.Arousal is a different thing all together.If I had a boner everytime I got aroused in public seeing someone attractive I'd really look like some sicko perv,people would diffenetely notice lol,.Don't worry,I think it's most important to get a boner when you really need it,when your going to use it, besides that I would'nt worry much about it.Who wants to be walking around in public with a big boner anyway,it can be embarrasing.
    It's all good,not odd at all. :)

    Don't worry Be happy!
    Joey*

    Take me dissappearing through the smoke rings of my mind.
    Far from the reach of crazy sorrow.
     

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