was i right with my reaction???

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by Wim, Aug 28, 2007.

  1. Wim

    Wim Member

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    Well i met some one finaly and i dont think ive ever been happier tho ive only know him for about a week now sounds odd im sure well any way we went out the other night and he asked me a good place to go and get some beers even tho i drink wine i told him about a very good biker bar i know the regulars and the owner they all know im gay and know me rather well to tell the truth well Brad (the one ive been seeing) mouthed off to 2 people ive never seen there before went tht went after him he did in my mind the cutest thing ive ever seen and hid behind me brad is about 5 foot 6 and weighs only about 125 pounds the 2 'Gentlemen" and the term is used loosely here were each over 6 foot and looked as tho they weight 300 a peice i myself am 6 foot 3 inchs and weigh roughly 200 pounds but im well built well they dident know i was gay till i stood up and they saw my shirt which says "im not gay.....but my boyfriend is"at that point they started really starting shit almost to the point of neanderthall actions it was retarded Jesse the bard tender (who happens to be the sweetist man i know) kept trying to warn them not to mess with me not for fear of his bar but well i'll win hands down ever time i took boxing and kick boxing from the time i was 10 they wanted a fight so i gave them one the one dood got knocked out easily enough and the other well was just stuborn 3 broken ribs and a dislocated shoulder the only injury i suffered was from hitting the wall as one of them ducked now my question did i handle this right in standing up for my friend (and hopeful spouse) my self and our life style or should i just have let them beat me till they were happy or just tryed to talk them out of there ideas i personly hate violence im aginst hurting others but at times sadly it seems they only way they'll listen so please feed back would be nice i feel really bad for what i did and not even sure if i should feel bad any way "huggles and kiss's all" i'll be back ^^
     
  2. UpNComin

    UpNComin Member

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    I think what you did was very heroic , you defended someone you care dearly about from what could have been a terrible thing.

    You sir get my respect.
     
  3. mushie18

    mushie18 Intergalactic

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    I think given the situation, your actions were not inappropriate.

    Though I think it was rude of Brad to mouth off to people in a place where you had taken him.
     
  4. *Andy*

    *Andy* Senior Member

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    What you did was fine I guess. I'm not a fan of violence either, but teaching those guys a lesson wouldn't hurt...

    And one suggestion - PLEASE use some punctuation marks! It's so hard to follow what you've written because it's all strung together like one huge sentence
     
  5. Wim

    Wim Member

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    ....Err sorry its a bad habbit of mine, that i dont really use the marks to tell the truth ima Lit Marjor or will be when i start school again lol.
     
  6. ryomadayo

    ryomadayo Member

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    best get on that... lol

    Good job sticking up for your friend
     
  7. Therese Aline

    Therese Aline Slave to the man

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    Self defense is not a crime. What you did was very sweet and I'm sure he digs you all the more for it.
     

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