When I think back to my teenage years, I can tell you at 15 I was absolutely positive that I was ready to handle sex. Now that I am a little more mature and wiser, I have a different opinion. I was probably 19 before I was able to make good decisions about sex, before then I was really clueless and easily taken advantage of. The few times I had sex in high school the guys really didn't treat me with respect even though at the time I didn't see it. To them having sex was just something to brag to their buddies about. If I could go back, I would have waited until I was 19 or 20. That's just my experience.
i was about that exact age. i am a lot older than you. she was about 4 months younger. we moved really well together.stayed together for over 6 years. it never felt better. i never had better.man you are nice lookin dont and i am an old hippie,not worthy of such beauty.
I mentioned I was thnking the thread would be dealing with how old can a man or woman be, and it still be OK for a yount woman or young man to date them, but I'll now add my experience. I didn't lose my virginity till I was 18, but all my buddies said they had fucked various hot girls again and again. Looking back, their announcemnet were probably bravado, because in those days it wasn't like now, and people never fucked on the first or even second date. It took my girlfriend and I six months of "petting' and things like hand-jobs and feeling her up, etc. until we finally fucked, thus both losing our virginity in one sex act.
started in 8th grade which was hella young with a verrrry special person tho untill now we are still very close
And add the zits, bad breath, BO, and clumsyness. Gee maybe they have self respect. AT any rate you should make sure you are not going to get some girl with child by using condoms and something else like foam. Think of your penis as a check book and your sperm as the checks. Consider having an unwanted child like having to pay 18 years of xm radio bills. And FYI sperm in the second ejaculation are stronger than the sperm in the first ejaculation.
What is everyone's obsession with free love?! Humans are monogomous creatures. We're not apes for cryin' out loud. I'm not saying sleeping with two or three people is wrong, it's part of the journey of finding the right person for you. But to sleep with dozens upon dozens of people in your life and to not be able to commit and be irresponsible is a horrendously sad thing.
lol You said it, brother! When yeh're in that age, the trick is to find yourself an older woman, she'll sort you right out x)
haha oh god well some people still call me a slut for something i did 7 years ago i lost my virginity when i was 11 but i don't really think it was a mistake, most people do, although i am so comfortable now, and i found myself sexually a few years ago so i kind of like the fact that i started early now i'm 18 and i know exactly what i want and i'm not afraid to say it otherwise, i think 16 is a good age a really good age actually in the middle of high school it would be cute
I was 17. I think men and women should wait until they know what sex is. Really, there are so many things to worry about these days. Now sex can kill you. Is it worth dieing for? There are STD's and pregnancy issues. I think if 2 people understand the responsibilties of having sex, then it is probably the right time. Sex is great and we mostly all know that. Being responsible for it is something different.
Absolutly agree with the majority! You will know when you want to and if you are ready.... although inmaturity does result in many teen pregnancies, but at the same time, if you are young and pregnant that was meant to happen and you are meant to learn something from it..... Life is life and you already made your plan before you got here whether you know that or not.... Do what you feal comfortable with and youll be fine.
Girl, listen to me! Do it now if you want to! Age is of no importance! I did it for the first time 2 weeks after my 14 birthday and i loved it afterwards, so my opinion is that age is not important! just because you have sex doesn't make you a.........prostitute
im 15 and im all 4 free love but only if you now and care about them heaps and you know that they feel he same way about you i dont beleive in relationships there so mainstream and restricting xoxoxoxox
Okay. For those of you that said don't have sex until you're ready for a kid, WTF? Not everyone has sex only for procreation's sake. It doesn't matter if you're 14 or 34 you could get pregnant from sex. Which is why both parents and young people need to take the proper precautions. Parents need to give kids the info on how to be safe, maybe even provide birth control if necessary. Parents need to be more involved in kids lives. I'm not talking about spying on them, I'm talking about being there. You should talk to your kid about their relationships. Get to know the person they're hanging out with. If you find out they're having sex, don't freak out. Help them do it safely! And not everyone is in the dark ages when it comes to unplanned pregnancy. There are things called abortion and adoption. Whether you're 14 or 34 there's no one forcing you to keep that child. You have options. Myself personally will only have sex with someone I care about. I lost my virginity at 19, which was IMO a little old, but honestly I probably wasn't ready before that and there was no one I'd consider having sex with before that. So my advice is just to wait until you're ready. Whenever that is, it's possible there will be consequences. EDIT: (Some questions) Should married couples not have sex if they don't want to have children? Should someone who's a mature adult (over 20) abstain from sex with someone they love deeply because they don't want to have a child? What if I don't want to have children at all, should I then abstain from sex entirely??? If we expect young people to be this responsible in relationships, then perhaps we should do our best to hold ourselves to these expectations as well.
Some 16 year olds are not ready at all to have sex, I know a girl who just got pregnant. But there are some of us who can handle it, if something happens you have to accept it.
