ok. Im with a guy that makes me very happy, more happy than i've been in a very long time. But, for the past,...oh, i'de say, 4 years, i've had dreams were i've been making out or having sex with another girl. I've brought this up to my mom, but she seems to think that since my father sexually abused me when i was 10, im just CONFUSED. Ack! i am very tired of this. I haven't talked about it to her in over 6 months, but since then, i have had atleast 15 dreams like the ones i mentioned, and i find my self attracted to one of my friends(girl). I guess what i need to know is, am i just confused, or am i truely bi? i have no problem with being bi, it's just trying to get my mom to come to grips with reality. Any comments on this would be appreciated because frankly, this issue has been on my mind for quite sometime. Thanks! ~Danni
oh! and i think i might have put this in the wrong forum, because i just saw one that said"comming out and confused"-soo, yeah, noone needs to tell me.
I'm just gonna answer this thread coz I'm bored. I'll ask you a question - do you get turned on by girls in general? and guys? If yes to both of these then you are probably bi. You just need to look into yourself and see if you really are. *shrugs*
yes, im turned on by both. it tends to be equal for both genders too.Yeah, i probably am Bi. But there is still the mom issue....
Just tell her again and tell her if she is in denial then so be it. You can't change her brain, lol. She'll have to deal with it, lol.
yeah. she kinda acts like a little kid with her fingers in her ears, saying"la la la" really loud. LOL!!
Well,. I think what's the most important here is that you know who you are not so much your mom,I understand how hard it can be.Hope that does'nt sound insensitive,but I'd look for supportive people to help you with this and not pay too much mind to those who are not. Sounds like you're Bi and it's great you're ok with that already,that's 1 less thing you have to deal with.Let mom be mom and you be you! nothing ever goes as planned! I love the Paradise Theater pic I saw Styx on that tour 6 times, It was fantastic every time!!! That was my first concert ever! Very Cool, Anyways,Live and Let Live *%*Joey
