I hate them. My GF got pissed at me tonight because I had already made plans to see my brother, who I rarely see (maybe once a month) on the weekend because he is going away for six months. hold up, back up a little... I'm working friday and saturday night, 10pm starts. I get home at about 7:30am. I was talking to her on msn tonight, she told me *sarah* (not her real name) is having a birthday lunch this weekend. I said I probably wont be able to go because my bro is going away, and this is the only chance i'll get to see him before he goes to scottland to study for six months. she gets angry and says 'what so you're gonna miss her birthday again?? you missed it last year!!' I was in california with my family (i'm from australia). how was I supposed to make it to a birthday :S so I say I'll see what I can do. She gets all pissed off and says 'no don't worry about it, don't come go see your brother and miss your friends birthday again' jesus christ, its HER friend, not mine. I don't exactly count her as a TRUE friend. I only talk to her if she's there with other people. now she's not talking to me. after a bit of arguing. I did nothing wrong. AT ALL. I think she's gotta smarten up a bit...I've put up with this for the last year. She also claims i don't listen. Her argument was that because i wasn't talking much the other night, i was ignoring her. I was looking for a new job/career path at a job site, and told her when i called her, and she still chose to ignore that fact. she makes stupid excuses for being angry. pisses me off!!! I'm a good boyfriend too, I get up after one hours sleep to take her places, i ditch my mates to pick her up from work, I buy her presents her parents can't afford (well, thats not true, she got a freakin 2001 model car for her birthday wtf, no they're not rich, just good savers). For christmas I bought her a $260 bracelet. For her birthday I spent $250 on a handbag and matching purse... I spend so much money taking her out, and I feel like she throws it back at me...I think she might be a bitch!
Ok She needs to understand that family should come before friends even if it is there B-day. Family should always come first at least in my book. Secondly she needs to concider that your brother is going to be GONE FOR 6 MOS. not 6 says. That is a long time to not see a sibling that you are use to seeing regularly. Now I know I am just and outsider looking in but she apears to be being selfish. That is not fair to you or your brother in this aspect. Also you need to remember you can not buy love and no one relationship should not be taken for granit not even yourself.
perhaps its all out of insecurity. or maybe shes just a demanding bitch. btw, dont buy her gifts if you want a pound of flesh in return. If youre not happy to give her the gift with nothing in return, dont give her a gift at all.
she sounds like shes rather hight maintenance i guess its up to you whether or not you want to pu tup with that
I always say bro's before ho's and chicks before dicks! Im not trying to be mean or sound like a bitch but your girlfriend sounds like shes a controlling bitch. Maybe she is pms-ing or going through something right now but if i were you i would try to talk to her and tell her how you feel and how shes pissing you off and if shes a bitch about it its up to you if you want to stay in that relationship or not but right now it seems like yuou should just leave her and get out while you can.
Are you serious? She bitched at you for wanting to see your FAMILY; who was going to a foriegn country for half a year. Seriouslyl that girl needs a wake up call. If anybody had the right to be pissed it was you. I really dont know how to help you but I think you know that she needs a reality check.
