how to stay hard

how do i stay hard...i mean im fine all the way till bout we are in the middle of having sex then i go soft and cant get bac hard.also i have recently tried the longersex condoms that desensitize the penis and those also made me go soft as soon as i put them on,....so what do i do

 

i have the same problem m8, any1 help ?

 

How about a cock ring? That stops it from going soft.... Or even viagra?

 

im only 18 and dont think i should need viagra? although i will try if my problem keeps happening

 

also where on the internet can i order 'real' viagra, as i've only seen other makes which im not too sure about

 

http://www.onlineclinic.co.uk/
You tell them your problem and then they will get back to you via email and tell you that you are able to purchase viagra. If you're failing to get an erection then Viagra could help. It's only temporarily until you lose the feeling of uncomfort though.
If it doesn't work then go to a sex clinic. It's definately curable.

 

yeah i told my girlfriend that ill try viagra a few times then well try it without because then my nerves may have died down a bit . . . is this possible???? and thanks for the site

 

It's ok. I'm in exactly your position. I don't suffer from it as badly as alot of people, it's only the penetration part or if I've had too many handjobs...
I tried Kamagra which is supposed to be generic viagra but it didn't work with me so I've moved to the expensive brand of viagra from that site I gave you.
You'll need it a couple of times and then after you'll find it easy. It's just that first stepping stone!

 

ye ive tried kamagra but not with my girlfriend, i tried it with myself but i didnt realy notice any difference???

 

Like I said Kamagra didn't work with me even with my girlfriend. At times it would work the next day, 24hrs too late...! So Kamagra must be lacking something that viagra has somewhere. You do need to be stimulated though I think. It won't just pop up on its own.

 

yeah like we've had phone sex n stuff but ive noticed it stimultes me to late too! like 4 hours later! its not the best of products in my opinion

 

There's another thing that would be good. Alot of people use it, even people with no erection problems. Horny Goat Weed. It's supposed to make your sexual desire and erections much stronger. You take 2 pills a day and it builds up your libido and your erectile function. It's natural. They're just herbs, but they work, not right away as you need to build it up daily.


By the way if you're taking viagra or owt like that don't take it with alcohol. It just won't work. It's best taking it with no alcohol and on an empty stomach.

 

i've just stopped drinkin recently so it should be ok, il try viagra and see if that works, iv also ordered some erection cream which supposed to work instantly ?

 

just think of shit thats gonna keep your dick hard... like your g/f's tittes when the bounce...

 

being to nervous can cause erection problems, i've tried a product like viagra but no side effects which worked for me, have other things to and review of products http://www.themenschoice.com/

 

Hey there Aaron, (And to others as well ^_^)

So far I see that the majority of answers are suggestions for products; while I don't have anything against such thoughts, I suggest you try other things before you take that route.

I have a similar problem, though maybe a tad different and less severe. I usually find myself losing an erection during doggy-style. It may be because it does not cause me much pleasure, or possibly the position is not something that I am comfortable with.

Is the sex uncomfortable? Perhaps you are thinking too much about the sex rather than just diving in and enjoying. I understand that there may be physical rather than mental problems, but consider that maybe you really are "expecting" the sex more than just giving in and being an animal.

But if you are looking for an answer to see how you can get back "up," fast, then the solution for that is simple: Keep the energy flowing, if you notice yourself becoming even slightly flaccid, then stop thrusting and move onto something else. Sex is more than just penetration. When I find myself in that kind of situation, I move on to giving her oral without missing a beat. If you stop thinking about your penis, you may end up getting hard again while doing other things to please your partner.

 

Rubber band your balls.

 

Mikey has given the best advice here really. There's a few different things you can try without resorting to chemical help. If you change positions quite regularly and switch between penetration and back to oral sex it will help, try positions that really make her pussy tight too. Try with her on the bed lying on her side, get her pussy nice and wet and her legs are closed, one on top of the other, totally in line. So when you're going inside her it looks like you're just disappearing between her legs but you'll be going straight into a tight, wet pussy.

There are many positions that people commonly stick to that naturally open up the pussy so the grip it has on you at first loosens. Ask your girl, whenever she thinks about it, to contract her vaginal muscles so that every so often they just grab your cock. If you feel yourself going a little bit soft in doggy style then just pull your cock out and slap it down between her ass cheeks, this will get blood rushing back there and you'll probably also get turned on by seeing your cock all wet with juice and slapping off her asshole, then go back in.

And as mikey said, if you feel it going soft...act nonchalant, pull out and start licking her pussy, DON'T APOLOGISE! Don't say anything, don't break the mood, just shrug it off cos you know your cock can get a full erection so just keep the erotic mood intact, there's no girl gonna complain about some mid-fuck pussy licking!

 

I used to have this problem mantaining the hardness and also premature ejaculation for me. I was totally embrassed in front of my girlfriend thinking that I'm impotent. My looks is ok, and always approach by girls into one night stand. Bcos of this, i rejected them as I knew my own capabilties.

I have tried Viagra and was useful, but causing alot of side effects. I put a stop to it. I learnt from a friend he was using maxidus and i tried it on and works extremely effective for me without any side effect. Been taking Maxidus for 3 month and stop using it and without Maxidus it works too. But of cos, with Maxidus, i'm like one of the pornstar non stop fucking for 45 mins.

If you are interested, can take a look here www.maxidus-pill.com . I did all my order from here.

Cheers

 

Sounds like "performance anxiety" for some of you guys. Don't use viagra, etc. at your young age, just relax and don't drink too much before having sex - alcohol is a depressant. And weed does not help either, except for a puff or two. Everyone can't get it up once in a while (I have made love 10,000+ times and had 5 or 6 failures over the years, due to tiredness, overuse, performance anxiety, alcohol, etc.) But the next time, all was OK and the problem went away if i did not think about it, because you really do screw with your brain and not the delivery system between your legs.