Guys: wat r ur main turnoffs?

really? even a tiny bit? i dont shave anywhere but my body hair is blonde and reasonably fine. my pits each have a small patch of light, soft hair thats no more than 1/4th of an inch long. most people dont notice it. do you mean all pit hair or just dark, long, thick hair? and out of curiousity, im wondering how you guys feel about leg hair. no one has said anything about it. is it sexier that a girl is comfortable enough with herself to be a bit fuzzy or is it sexier for her to be smooth and sleek but sometimes stubbly and have nicks/razor burn?

 

The worst are always personality bassed.
I personaly don't like a girl I can't talk to or who won't stop talking about what her friends did to another girl cus they were in a fight or w/e.
Stupid gosip is the worst...

As far as physical goes, body hair is bad, especialy lower back hair. Ehhck

 

some will like it better smooth, some will like it better not. depends on what YOU prefer. don't try to please everyone, it's not possible. please yourself first, and then the people who agree with you on what's attractive will find you.

 

1. Complete lack of confidence. Nothing is more of a turn-off than a girl who's constantly in need of reassurance and always puts herself down otherwise.
2. Lack of cleanliness. Seriously, if you're going to share your body with another person, then groom it and make it look nice.
3. Taking life too seriously. If you can't loosen up and have some fun then I can't learn a thing from you.
4. Stupidity. It's last on the list because if I found a confident, clean, relaxed girl who was as stupid as a brick, I'd probably stick it to her.

 

Smoking!
Bitchiness (To me or to other people)

 

Excess weight.
Body hair.
etc.

 

I don't know why all these people are saying body hair... Obviously if it's like Chewbacca or she has more body hair than me I wouldn't be the greatest fan but I personally have no problem with it. It's -n a t u r a l-...

What I find the biggest turn ON is a girl who is confident in herself/her body and doesn't feel she has to follow other people's popular perceptions of beauty or behaviour and can make such desicions for herself... If she wants to shave, then ok. If she doesn't then that's just as fine for me... See them for the >person< they are and not a piece of meat... Beauty comes in many forms...

Turn offs... Needyness, ignorance, arrogance, pettyness, jealousy, being uptight, obsession with appearance, makeup etc... Well, this is for me anyway. Some guys like girls to be these things as it makes them feel their cock's bigger than it actually is :nod:

 

yeah...because it's not at all arrogant to put a giant picture of yourself in your sig

 

chewing really loud in front of me.it's so disgusting and it really gets to me.
acting differently around other people/friends because you feel the need to be accepted
always putting yourself down
and obviously bad body odor

 

A liar.
Jealousy.
Chewing with your mouth open.
Talking with food in your mouth.
Pit hairs (leg hair is OK)
Total insecurity.
A woman who is afraid to try new things.
Smoking.
Drugs.
Bright red hair.
Black finger nails.
To many face and body piercings.
Saying "Like" three times in every sentence.
Saying Ahh, or Umm, because they can't concentrate on what the hell they really want to say.

Shit, I didn't realize I was so friggen picky.....

 

Britney Spears
nuff said

 

The fawk?

LOL

 

i know im not a guy, but a girl farting on her partners hand or even during oral sex might be a turn off..lol

 

farting dosnt bother me at all..........

 

Turnoffs:-

1)Hair - errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!
Makes me want to throw up.I mean fancing a woman with hair is like being gay IMO
Apart from hair in 2 places obviously.
2)"Women who describe themselves as "assertive" or "independent" to use the American parlance.
That basically means money grabbing , man hating , abrasive and devious.
3)Women who love over-attention , sort of getting off on wet males who drool and arselick to them.
4)Women prone to drama and deliberately engineering rows to "test" men.
5)women who dress like their grandma , well u know like hiding behind massive glasses and long skirts.Like I wanna screw an Ayatollah's Mrs....!
6)Women who think being devious is cool or clever.
( esp ones who aint clever enough to be devious or cool)
7)Short hair- I think lesbians with dungarees.
8)Talking about disgusting topics that will make any mans stomach curdle , I wont go into here..
9)Eating burgers , chocolate and cakes instead of looking afterthemselves properly - then claim its society being "unrealistic".Hmmm
10)Obsessions with kids , other peoples relationships , garbage celebrities ,
and needless Do It Yourself ( or should that be Do it MYSELF) activities designed purely to waste time and keep me out of the pub or football.

Cue torrent of man hating abuse...

 

Ok honestly, if a girl thinks farting or burping is cute or funny I lose any possible attraction. It's like, taking my attraction, crumpling it into a ball and throwing it down a bottomless pit. There's no coming back from that. If she is even slightly embarassed or apologizes or whatever, (you know, has manners) then it's easy to look past. I know alot of guys who feel that way too.

After that, I would say facial hair is the most terrible thing imaginable. I saw some stubble on my ex-girlfriends lip once and I never recovered from that. It completely erodes feminine beauty. Armpit hair or hairy legs are nothing compared to facial hair, that shit will damage a guys mental image of a girl forever.

 

Hell yes. All of those things just make it hard to think of a girl as feminine.

And to garbage celebs, if I have to hear a chick talk about Paris Hilton I make a mental note to never speak to her again.

 

my husband, the alpha, says there's a fine line between assertive/independent and ball-crushing frigid bitch. i think the main point to be considered is that that fine line is ACTUALLY LIKING MEN BEING MEN.

 

OH CRAP! my bad. all those times i did that, i just thought i was prettying up the place, you know, like planting flowers around the house...

 

you know, it's utterly amazing that we get along, you should be burning me in effigy.. i think you just consider me a man and move forward. it's a good plan.