Some bisexual women

Are you still awake soaringeagle....get some sleep before you become sick !!!!

 

shoild be but took a sip of ganja oil & got drymouth from hell...
everyones tellin me to sleep
omg i mite noit get to sleep till noon

 

I have alwys considered myself a bisexual lesbian. I have never had an emotional relationship with a girl other than my sister, but the few relationships I had with guys were pretty fucked up. I'll have sex with either gender, but I think if I find a chick I connect with, that may all end. I'd be okay with just a gf.

 

i think that still makes a person bisexual.
i consider myself to be bisexual but right now, i am only interested in men.

 

I for one, don't believe in relationships. I have all the emotional attachment I need with my friends. I know I'm oly 17 blah, blah, blah. But I just don't want to have to go through heartbreak with someone I love, losing one of my PHC would destroy me. If I was in an emotional and romantic relationship with someone it would be even worse.

 

It's probably "okay" for a heterosexual person to have sex with someone and not want to be in a relationship. However, if that heterosexual person misleads a partner or doesn't communicate his or her interests clearly, I do have a problem with that.

 

I am bi but i would never be in a relationship with a woman. well, never say never. but i wouldn't go looking for a woman-woman relationship.

i think women are so beautiful and sensual but i just wouldnt be able to deal with all the womanly probs, ya know? my pms is enough for me, dont need someone elses lol. if i found a woman who played no games, was not manipulative, than maybe. but most woman are pretty catty, they just cant help it.

 

i had a crush on this girl once who pretended to be bi to get men's attention. it was pretty hurtful. not that the emotional bonding didn't work, but that she wasn't into women, only into putting on a show for men and used me in all my glory, to get it.

but as for long term partnerships with women, i've just never found one before i found my husband. had i not found my husband, i don't even know where i'd be now, or with whom. i'm sure any number of possibilites would present themselves. but dave is so much my other half that i can't imagine being with ANYONE else, male of female. you can't really help where you find your other half. it's there, or it's not. so if someone adores females sexually and for long term friendships, but can't help the fact that a long term true partnership isn't there, should they be insulted for it? thought of as fickle or flighty? since i'm neither, i'd have to say that i find that particular opinion to be unfounded.

 

There are varying degrees of bisexuality.
Just because a person uses the label "bisexual" doesn't that they are attracted in completely equal portions to men and women.

Anyone heard of the Kinsey Scale? Where one end is completely straight, the other is completely gay, bisexual is in the middle? Well, it's a scale, people aren't lumped at only those three delineated points. I call myself bi because I could see myself making out with a woman, but I'm not sure how much further it would go until I'd actually experienced it. Somewhere between completely straight and that halfpoint labelled as bisexual. That's where I fall, and I know it.

To the OP, I'm sorry that you got hurt, but I don't think that broad sweeping generalizations about all bisexual women is the appropriate way to try and figure out what happened. Have you ever asked these women if they consider themselves to be wholly bi, or somewhere on that scale? A label is just a word, we all have slightly different definitions of words/labels

 

I looked up the Kinsey scale and have done this thread
http://www.hipforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=214535

 

For me till now it was only a fantasy

 

HI,.
I hope no-one takes offense to this in any way.
It's been my expierience you're attracted to people you have some type of chemistry with.Same sex,different sex whatever,it's all chemistry.If I was having a difficult time finding a partner of either sex(I'm Bi)that was compatable to what I was looking for in some type of relationship,even if I only just wanted sex.I'd really have to think what it is I may be contributing to the situation that leaves me in the cold of not finding someone compatible.It's not about sexual preference at all.It's about chemistry,theirs and mine.Relationships are a two way street.Regardless of gender and orientation,I also find what AutumsMoonChild is saying to be a very prejeduced generalization of Bisexuals.I understand what you're saying perfectly Autum,and It diffenetely bothers me,but I know you meant no offense and it's kinda not a big deal sorta,This is diffenetely the kind of stuff that gives Bisexuals a bad name though,I'd suggest if you're having difficulty finding someone compatible (whatever sex or gender)that it maybe something about you,and you might want to explore that before you go make generalizations about anyone,or any group of people.

Why is it that when there difficulties in relationships alot of people do not think of what there part in it maybe?? I don't know,It is something I find very aggravating since I try to figure out what I may be doing that may cause a problem.
Anyway,.With Love,
There's my 2 cents.
Joey,...

Take me disaperring through the smoke rings of my mind.

 

i think nowadays its "the thing" to be bisexual. but i know i dont do it for attention or whatever; i do it because its ME.
sure, i pursue men, too, but thats because i like both genders. even though i like women MUCH more, i still like men, so there ya go.
it really isnt hard to fall in love with girls, ill tell you that....

 

yes! so true!

 

then stop attacking female bi-sexuals because of any relationship problems you may have had in the past. i'm a bi-sexual male but i would only ever be in a loving relationship with a girl and not a guy. but i am undeniably sexually attracted to men as well as women therefore i am a bi-sexual because i have SEXUAL feelings for BOTH sexes.

 

arghhhhh! why is it that people are so less willing to accept bisexuality than homosexuality? does it not make sense that if there are people to either end of the spectrum (Kinsey scale, watever) that there are going to be people in the middle of it?

i agree with whoever earlier on said the peice about where u percieve urself as falling on it. and of course every1s interpritation is slightly different of what they mean by what they say. the trouble is that the labels we use to get by in society are so narrow that ppl box themself into all sorts of corners with how they 'fit' themself in.

personally i find i fall quite near the middle of the Kinsey scale, but theres millions who are more for one or the other. as a community i suppose we really just need 2 get abit more publicity- make a bigger scene about being accepted and acknoledged as being as sexuality legitamite as hetero or homosexuality. then both other sides of the scale will have 2 admit it exists and isnt just promisculous nutters!!! actually, i am so for the idea of bi-bars! then every1 in the place could hit on aaaannnybody else, and we would meet folks inclinded like ourselves, which is always a good place to start

 

awesome idea

 

Well, being young, I can stilll say that when I was in a relationship with my ex girlfriend, I felt like I got emotionally attatched..and I honeslty can say, that I love women more than men..I only like 1 man, and that has been for 3 years...I just can't seem to find any girls..