Want an Orgrasm So Bad

..I'm a female, and I want an Orgrasm so bad, but I just cannot seem to get one. I've read that you need to get to know your body and everything, but there must be some tips to get you really horny, and get them! I mean anything! Even if it is rubbing your ass with a blanket.

Could anyone tell me of there exspirences, and what you do to get Orgasms, and maybe give me some tips?

Thanks!

 

didnt you just make another thread just like this?
are you not getting horny enough? is that the problem?
if so maybe dont masterbate so often till your so horny you cant stand it any more & have to

 

just... rub it... a lot.

 

i'm not a woman- and this is merely a guess- but it could be because you want it so bad and your mind is focused on that- instead of just being in the moment and letting it happen.

i had a gf who never experienced one- and didnt with me until we were having sex for a couple months- i know when it happened for her it was because she was so comfortable with me and just lost in the moment- not worried about MAKING it happen or forcing the issue. She just made love and went at it.

just throwing an idea out there

 

yes thats very true & very much could be the issue as well its very dificult to tell what the problem maybe from 1 paragraph that basicaly just says i want 1..everyone wants 1 but without alot more info its impossible to guess why your not having one

 

Yes, yes..thanks everyone. Soaring yeah, this is my second time posting this, cause I accidently posted my last thread in Masturbation. Anyway I'll Message you Soaring, as I'd like to talk about it.

 

no prob i really dont thoink its a big problem its most likely your mind thats holding u back more then techniques or anything could be many things

it could even be your parents & how u were brought up
so yea might be alot to talk abiyt but sure message me

 

Yes, thank you. I messaged you!

Anyone else have any tips? Feel free to message me!

 

There must be something that turns you on. Think of that or do it. Make sure you have lots of quiet or alone time. Then try lying on your tummy with something soft between your legs, like a pillow or blanket. Just rub against it and see if it feels good. I've heard that's how a lot of girls learn and you can just think about something that turns you on while you do it.

 

I didn't have my first orgasm until I was your age. I was about 16 1/2. And my girlfriend didn't have her first one until she was 18, so it's not uncommon.

I really think it all has to do with relaxing and enjoying the moment. If you are concentrating on having an orgasm you probably wont because you're so focused on it that you can't really relax and feel whats going on.

Just keep trying. It may be well, the method you are using. I can get off just by rubbing the clitoris in a circular motion, but a lot of girls can't get off from doing it by hand. If you are trying start out slow and then work up to a faster pace. Sometimes it's uncomfortable if you are stimulating it directly or pressing to hard so be careful. Or get a vibrator. They usually never fail.

 

washing machines work too. :lol:

 

Lay on your back in the bath tub under the faucet and let the water beat down on your clit for awhile, that worked for me.

 

^yeah i used to do that. But you could also look for things that vibrate around your house. For instince i had this face thing that massaged my face and i didnt like it because it didnt really do anything so i used it as a vibrator and it felt so good. I know its wierd and sort of gross but nobody used it and i didnt want it to be a waste of money so i put it to use.

 

i love it ninja

 

i am bi and i have a stronger orgasim with woman but that is just me.

 

Have you thought about why that is the case? I'm going to guess that you actually favor women over men.

 

Don't try getting an orgasm!
aftewhile, you just want another one, and all the time... it ruined my life!

 

You can't get an orgasm by just wanting one. It's not like wanting to get a new car. Sex is not logical, it's an emotional feeling. First you have to really love sex, because that's the only way you're going to get hot and hungry for it. Second, you need to think about some kind of sexual act that really turns you on and gets your juices flowing. I'm sure you can think of all the different sex acts there are. Third, once you find what excites you and you're hot for it you can get yourself there by fantasizing about doing it while playing with your vagina and/or clit gently, until it starts to feel good. Then keep fantasizing and working on that sweet feeling until it intensifies. Do that often and soon enough the time will come when playing with yourself will feel so exciting and pleasurable that you will have an orgasm. Then it will be time for your boyfriend or husband to learn how to get you there himself. But it all starts with how you truly feel about sex, and how you truly feel about men and women engaging in it.