Making a move!

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by PresidentialScandal, Aug 22, 2007.

  1. PresidentialScandal

    PresidentialScandal Member

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    I have been in college for almost two weeks now, and I think that finally I have a new crush. Prior to actually being on campus, we had been conversing via Facebook for over two months and already had known a fair bit about one another before we had met in person. Anyway, we have been hanging out very often in the past week (it has been exponentially increasing as time has passed), and I think that he also likes me.

    My question is: How do I make a move? And which? I am thinking that I should just wait for the right moment and then kiss him on the lips... the thing is that I have never kissed anyone outside of my family, of either sex. Fortunately, this time we both know that the other is gay. Does anyone have some suggestions or good stories for the first time you had made a move on a boy?
     
  2. pianoperson60

    pianoperson60 Senior Member

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    I guess making moves its all about hte moment and circumstances, so theres only a limited amount of help i can give you, ya know? but id just say, whenever you get into a good conversation, edge the conversation into more flirtier waters i geuss and then just try holdign his hand or touching his shoulder and looking at him in the eyes, and if you see "that sign" (as in, if he seems interested- which is sometimes hard to tell when youre looking intsenly for signs, just dont freak out and dont misread) go for it and kiss him...i mean in general, the worst thing thatll happen is hell just turn away or something, its only a kiss...but i know it can be nerve-racking..
    good luck!
     
  3. Ghilenhall

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    same here dude. i met this guy as u did and we keep on hangin out lately very often. as u say, it looks u could have a nice chance, which , luckyly for ya is quite a relief, while the guy i fell for doesn't show me any sign of sharing my feelings.
    ok, well there is something i could share, it happened to me last night.
    my parents went off on a trip , and i decided to stay home. to put it shortly, i called this guy to come over and have some drinks..he likes beer more than anything [​IMG] and since i was buyin all the drinks he couldn't say no. i guess u know what i am talkin about... u know, some beer and the truth shall be revealed..maybe.maybe not. in my case , it wasn't...unfortunately, though it gave me some hope. so, after 2-3 beers, ( it was about midnight ) i asked him if he wanna watch a movie or somethin. he gave me some titles, and we lied on my bed and started watchin. we were so close of each other, that i couldn't help myself from touchin him, so i put my arm behind my neck so that my hand would touch him, but at the same time to look as if it was smthing randomly, unpurposely. i was happy to see that he didnt rejected me...so smoothly and slowly i started to grab his neck, but nothin more.. i was so f*** scared. later we started to fight for fun..yea i know. silly. he punched me i punched him and so on till we got tired. after all that mass i grabbed his arm between mines and hold it on my chest. he didn't took it back this time either. so i touched his neck and started playin in his hair with my hand..i was over the moon. but still couldn't give him the kiss..i'm still afraid i might have missunderstood everythin, it all could have happened because of those bottle of beer and nothin more..dunno
    the fact is that u could give it a try... it doesn;t cost u anythin. so, i;m lookin forward to hearin any succes from ya [​IMG]
     
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