I recently have become sexually active after being abstinate for several years. I don't have a lot of sexual experience anyways. my boyfriend is about 4 maybe 5 inches long and not a large girth. in the missionary position his penis seems to come out a lot. also, I really can't feel his penis inside of me. I am a petite woman and don't think that I am loose. is there something wrong with me or is he too small? lol he doesn't seem to get really hard either.
4 is small. 5 is kind of small, but the main thing is if he's got no girth and is going limp he's definately going to be flopping out. And it may be hard for you to enjoy it.
have you two considered a cock ring? it can help some guys who have issues remaining fully hard. practice your kegel exercises as well. have you two thought about other positions perhaps?
Do you get really wet, it could be slipping out. You could try getting on top and see if that helps too, or have him not make long thrust.
we have only had sex one time, but it was kind of frustrating and I am not sure that I want to continue the relationship. I do get wet, but not extremely wet. and he was blaming me for his penis coming out. I know that I am not loose because I have only had one partner and that was years ago. also, I have never had children. I think that a penis needs to be fairly hard to have intercourse, right? his didn't seem to get that hard. not to brag, but I am very attractive with a nice body and I think he is very attracted to me. lol
Yeah, a penis needs to be hard for intercourse. I'd drop him if he's acting that way. There are plenty of nice men out there that have a properly funtioning penis when the time comes.
It wasn't my fault that it was coming out. he acted like I was doing something wrong. he wasn't really mean about it, but he kept saying come on. I guess he was frustrated! we will see, I don't know what to do. sex isn't everything, right?
it ain't your fault Citygirl57 see he ain't very long and his dick ain't very wide he was trying to take to big of strokes with short penis that the reason it was slipping out.....sex isn't everything but it plays a very important role in a relationship cause during sex trust and closness developed....... maybe try a different postion that may help if not then you and him needs to have a serious talk
so it's not my fault? why doesn't he get really hard then? he is in his mid 30's 6 ft tall and a little overweight. I didn't think that penis size mattered that much, but I can hardly feel it! lol
Well, pardon me for butting in, but.... It seems like this is all about how big (or small) he is, or how hard he gets, and so on and so forth. And then you're not sure you want to continue with the relationship? Why? There doesn't seem like there's much love, or affection, or anything else in this relationship other than comparing how big his dick is with your labia, or how hard he might or might not get. If there is, maybe I've missed something. If there was a lot of love or affection involved, maybe these are things you could really work out as a couple because you sincerely care about each other. If a relationship is just mainly about the mechanics of what people do in bed, it's pretty much doomed, anyway.
Amen. If the relationship is about love, affection, something deep and meaningful, then you've got a genuine reason to work on things. Plus, I think feeling stimulated, being hard, all that stuff is vastly enhanced by the emotional side. But if there's nothing more to the relationship than sex, then just ditch it because the sex is bad. If you're worried about the bad sex because you want to share something special with someone you really care about, that's a different matter entirely. It seems, though, that caring and affection aren't factoring into this.
Yup that's the issue. Although erectile disfunction is more common in older guys, it happens to all age groups. Was he drunk? He sounds like an asshole with a small dick to me. I say screw him (as in don't screw him anymore ).
oh you are so funny, yeah, I thought it was my fault he couldn't keep it in. he came finally but it took him an hour. I think that he is a nice guy, but he was frustrated and he snored all night long! lol
So we have a bit of a drunk with a bit of a small dick, and he snores....I don't think you need anyone's advice here
