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I detest bratty children and teenagers to a fault. I was raised to be respectful of others and to not scream and embarrass my parents or make other people around me so annoyed that they would strangle me. Long story short, sometimes when im driving thorugh a busy parking lot I have to urge to just see how many I could hit with my car. Not just the kids but the parents too for letting them become horrible excuses for human beings. Or last week I was in the home depot getting some things and this mother was in the power tool section with her kids and they were screaming and running around and I noticed two of them playing with the band saws. I wanted to bad to just go up behind them and turn it on. Then again about a month ago I went crabbing with my partner, and we tend to go very very late in the evening im talking like 12 to 1am because there really arent people there then. Again there was a mother there with her 3 daughters, they were seemingly unimposing until the one little girl was walking by with her mother and was curious as to how many crab we caught, I saw no problem in letting her look in the bucket, as she did and asked us how we had caught them because her and her sisters hadnt, my partner explained about the bait and the traps and the little girl was satisfied and walked back with her mother, at this point I just thought she was a curious little kid and gave it no mind. Not 5 minutes later is she running back down the dock with her 2 sisters (all of wich who were under the age of 5) wanting to show them the crabs, I was fine with until they started asking my partner if they could have our traps and bait and being generally bratty and wouldnt leave my partner alone, they sat there screaming and carrying on and whining until one of them pushed the other and ran back crying back to thier mother. The time when they started behaving like little asshole i wanted nothing more than to hold thier heads under the dock and drown them in the bay. I think society and its lack of respect it showing most in its children and I cant stand it. It makes me want to commit horrible acts of aggression. I can handle myself, dont get me wrong. I wouldnt do it. But I would like to if i could get away with it. I know it makes me seem fucked up, but does anyone else every feel like that?

 

when i used to be around people (thankfully i am not anymore) i didn`t necessarily get that, But i did get very mad at kids imposing upon me. personal space and being rude etc
when i was at school, for a year or so i would talk with a friend about lots of violent things i wanted to do to the people there. but now i see it all as stupid, it`s just physical.. means nothing. the hatred however remains.. since people are despicable.

 

I agree. I wouldnt hurt them. But i hate them so, to the point where i hate leaving my house because i hate people so much.

 

If you have that much pent up anger inside at children that want nothing more then to learn about new things in life then maybe your parents didn't raise you as well as you thought. Grow up.

 

Im sorry i was raised with the end of a belt. I was taught better than to annoy people and scream bloody murder when i didnt get my way. Apparantly u didnt read my post well enough, i was fine with the kids while they were curious but when they crossed the line to obnoxious and rude thats when i get pissed. Ur the kind of people who breed little jerk off kids like that, so please castrate urself before u put anymore out there. Either that or learn that letting them do whatever they please turns them into little fucks.

PS. i normally dont flame but u really had no right to talk about my parents. My anger at annoying people has nothing to with how i was raised. Prick

 

lol

 

have you thought about anger management classes? its normal to be annoyed by bad behaviour, but youre thinking about specific, violent punishments... and that seems to be a couple steps beyond where most people are. i only contemplate yelling at them, i dont like brats either. but seriously, see if therea re some free or cheap anger management classes in your area, they could be really beneficial

 

dont worry, most people grow out of their spoiled assholeness sooner or later.

 

i mean...damn....killing a kid? i get pissed at people too, and i dont like kids at all, but i could never imagine killing one! i have a horrible temper myself but just play it through in your mind. imagine being angry at those little girls, then imagine drowning them. imagine their little helpless bodies struggling under the water, fighting for air. then imagine that the struggling stops, and you let go. their lifeless bodies float on the water. the source of your irritation is gone, but now how do you feel? i would hope that you would be flooded with guilt and regret, if not, you're a very scary person and i really hope you never cross my path. i have never had the urge to kill someone, beat into unconsciousness maybe, but never kill. death is so final and irreversible, and you hurt far more people than the one you killed. maybe i'm just being over dramatic because my cousin died 2 days ago....and he was only 22. i still really cant believe it, and i miss him terribly. please just think about the finality and pain of death before you contemplate it about people who just irritate you.

 

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Ok, i should clarify. I would never actually kill them. I just think about it.

 

um... okay. This is quite disturbing. Me personally I get a bit bratty sometimes but just when im fed up of it all. I just dont have the energy. I try not to be and im hoping no one is thinking of killing me.

With kids you gotta think why? e.g the terrible twos - why d'ya think its called that Id also recommend anger mangement classes an all but maybe this calls for professional help - theres gotta be a reason why you think like this.

 

um, you were a kid once too, but you weren't allowed to act in the way you wanted to, so seeing kids with freedom makes you feel unbelievable regret.

 

im pretty sure that probably hit the nail right on the head. maybe jealousy, not regret though. little kids can be pretty annoying, but everyone was a kid at some point. its the adults who are still kids that annoy me the most personally.

 

there`s a difference between being curious, and being obnoxious

 

i have no regret about how i was raised, its the lack of respect kids have these days, dont phyco-analize me. Im not a project to be cured, was just saying how I felt. Last time i do that, obviously the term free speech in this forum is hypocritical, u can say what u want and not be judged, but i cant.

 

Well, in my small school, I had to spend my 8th grade year grouped with people my age all the way to 10 year olds. Our class was basically 5th grade through 8th, and the teachers keep letting younger and younger kids into the school based on what test scores they get and not their level of maturity. Sometimes we have field trips and stuff. Can you imagine being almost 15 and having to go to the movies with 10 year olds running around and laughing hysterically at the trailers for some new disney movie? I seriously wanted to slap some of these kids like an assertive parent (or even teacher) would. This greatly improved my leadership skills, and got me to control my anger a bit, yes. But that was still fucking terrible. So, all im saying is, be glad you aren't spending 5 days a week with some bratty kids, you just pass by them.

 

You don't know how bad I've wanted to squeeze some fucking heads. I hear ignorance way more than I'd like to, and fuck some bratty kids, they're not worth the time.

 

As someone else has said, you may want to look into either anger management or therapy. I am not saying this to sound judgemental or offensive, but you wouldn't believe how common thoughts of violent acts truly are. Many people have them, but they would never act out the thoughts in real life. Others have them and do act them out. If it is repeated thoughts, you may have OCD. The repeated thought is O, and if you are only having thoughts, you may have what is called "pure O." I say this not to sound like I am analyzing you, but to rather give you advice. It is not normal to have thoughts of violence over anything, especially children. I agree with you about bad parenting and letting children get away with anything they want, and I think it produces the most direspectful adults. However, I would never have violent thoughts over it. You may just have anger issues, or it could be a number of other things. All I am saying is you may want to check into it.

 

Depending on their age, some kids need to have a good strop, just to learn from it. I have a two-year old and he gets very overcome by his emotions at the moment, as he is experiencing feelings in a new way. So he gets cross and upset sometimes. I don't know of anyone who has found a miracle cure for these sort of tantrums, they just happen and you have to deal with them calmly. When you see someones kid having a tantrum in a shop or somewhere, you are only seeing a snapshot, that kid might be calm the majority of the time. So it's wrong to judge peoples parenting skills on one thing you have seen, just like it was wrong of Haid to assume how your parents brought you up.

Older kids, well yes, once they reach a certain age, they should be able to exercise a certain respect for the world around them, including the people, but children ARE children, and it is human nature to have a curiosity.

When you say about the lack of respect kids have 'these days' what are you comparing it to? I'm sure at the age of 20 you don't remember any other generation of children growing up. Children have always misbehaved, there has never been a completely perfect age when all children behaved. Yeah, those children shouldn't have started bawling when you said no, but it is not their fault if that has worked for themin the past, it is the fault of the person that encouraged it. Which is not always the parent, I might add. And a child under three is unlikely to understand the reason you said no is because of you, he will only think of how it relates to himself.

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