okay, i'll name them by #'s. i'm talking about sexual partners, and i dont like #5, i wish i hadn't done it with him, and i just wanna forget i ever have... so if i do it with somebody new, can i replace him as #5 instead of building up my number of sexual parnets? or will number 5 always be there in my subconsious... no matter how hard i try to forget it.. and doing it with the new person only build it up to the actual number.. is this confusing.. i can't explain it,,, lol see, i dont wanna have sex with many people, makes me feel slutty.. so if i blank out the ones i dont like.. and replace them with someone else instead.. would that work? lol
we all have regrets. mostm of us have them about our past sexual partners too. to be honest, we just learn to live with it and move on . stop worrying about the numbers, jus tworry about who you let twixt youru legs
I am slightly confused as to why the numbers matter to you? If you are talking about telling a new partner then, to be honest, it's none of their business and you are free to tell them whatever you like. If you are talking about convincing yourself then no, you can't fudge the numbers. They are what they are. But numbers don't mean a damn thing. Sex is sex, you did not promise these guys your eternal soul for their services. So stop being so hard on yourself. Sleeping with several guys does not make you a slut. And 'slut' is just a pathetic label anyway. Take care...
numbers dont make u slutty slutty is in the attitude i'll fuck whover askes me to..thats slutty u can have 200 past failed relationships & not be slutty, just bad with picking losers why even count? if he was truly a horrofic miostake that u dont want to erven remember, forget his name & move on
The past will never change, as you have no control over it. However, you CAN shape your future however you want by making the right decisions in the present. It's your life; be as you will. I wish you the best!
Your number is your number. It's not healthy to lie to yourself. You should set some goals. You've got 12 years until your 30, and you're currently at 5 (very respectable). If you have sex with 3 guys a year, you'll be at 41 when you turn 30. That's a little high, but again, somewhat respectable. If you would like to end up closer to 28 then, 2 guys a year should be your max. At some point you'll end up in a committed relationship for a period of time. That should help you to reduce 41 & 28 to about 20-30. You're doing alright here, don't stress.
you must be very bored to have made this a question. Yes, your "#5" does count. Doesnt matter if you hate/regret him, it still happend. Dont run or hide from the past. You should accept your actions and own up to them...you will live a better life if you do that!!!
