Sex with Friends

Ive had some friends over the years that at some time we have had sex....Most of the time it nurtured our friendships.

 

i have a gal i have knowned for 20 years.... one of my best freinds we have had sex alot over them 20 years but we have always just been freinds........ i get another woman she don't mine or if she get a boyfreind i don't mine either and sex never interfered with our freindship

 

we all know when feelings get involved then its gonna get messy but if y'all can keep the feelings at a minimum then I say go for it. hell, i had sex with my bestfriend for 5 years off & on and we ended it just fine and remained friends afterward but we stopped for the friendship.

 

I agree with this...I had sex with a guyfriend of mine because for those reasons...we weren't using each other, it was just an act of pure love; I care about him and don't likee to see him frustrated or upset. A lot of people might think this is slutty, but I'm faaaar from slutty. Since the "event" we've been closer, better friends, and he's never been happier and more confident. It's a relief to see him in an up-mood 24/7

 

I tottaly agree with this, its been my philosophy for years, i mean sex is just a physical act that most of us need, shame very few people i know hold the same ideals

 

I've been reading this post for a while and I would have to agree with everyone who is open to physical relationships with friends. I have been lucky enough to have a few hippie friends who shared the same beliefs as me so afterwards we were way closer as friends and it actually made more personal matters easier. I noticed that they really weren't afraid to talk to me more openly about things that were previously more taboo to speak of. In any case, I dont really have friends like that anymore so its odd for me because now that i dont have relationships with my freinds in that way it just feels so empty or like somethings missing. I mean I could carry on conversations and stuff with them but it just never feels like I totally feel/understand them or where they are coming from. haha I'm wierd. Anyway hope this bit of rambling helped someone otherwise I just wasted my breath...

 

hmmm. these type of friends are good. what about tho, if one like the other alot after time. it can hurt alot of feelings, and break up alot of friendships.

 

well generally as your feelings and stuff change you're supposed to communicate this with your friend and decide on what course of action to take, wither be more serious together, see other people and be polyamorus, end the "benefits" part of the friendship, etc. it really just depends on the individuals and how they choose to steer the direction of the relationship.

 

yeah. its probably weird for a guy to say this. but i do prefer having a girlfriend over one or more friends with benefits. it just gets to me, and the girls annoy the fuck out of me. i dont mean to sound mean. but its the way it is. iv never said anything to them, but youd talk about shit, and youd care about them once you become close friends, and hear about some other fuck coming over to fuck them. i dont like it. and realise your probably some other fuck yourself. fuck that shit. sluts. sorry im just pissed off.

 

I agree with some of what you say. But I also believe that a relationship begins, no matter what that may be, when you kiss and touch and enjoy eachother's sexuality. That is a relationship. My wife and I have a wonderful relationship based on trust, friendship and respect. That to us is the essence of true love. We can have sex with others and it's just recreational sex. We love it!.............Streetcar76

 

i have a friend who i have sex with all the time..

but i'd totally go out with him if he wasnt married..

 

I like the way you put your thoughts. Peace and love to you as well.
Be safe

 

I think hippie chick rulz.

 

sex with friends is a great thing, but to prevent that anyone gets hurt,
it´s important to respect eachother. sex can make the friendship even deeper.

 

I agree, I used to have sex with a lot of my friends, ok that made me sound like a whore, but its not as many as it sounds and it was more than just one night but not a relationship most times. With a few people it was just fucking for lack of anything better to do but with some of my closer friends it was expressing love, not in the i love you way... its hard to explain but i've got to say even when it was more than just sex nothing comes close to when you do it with someone you have a deep connection with.

 

no, i don´t think u sound like a whore.
Why shouldn´t friends experience sex with eachother?

 

To the starter of this thread: I'm happy to inform you that evolution has been generous enough to provide us with things like AIDS and HPV to remove you and your kind before you can harm too many more people.

You're a bit confused on what "insecure" means, so I'll fill you in.

An extremely insecure person will do irrational things, like sleep around with everyone in a vain effort to feel validation that they can't seem to find anywhere else, and when that doesn't work they'll post a story nobody asked for on the internet to try to justify their being a wench.

I'm not even religious, but you're disgusting enough for me to tell you that you're going straight to hell when you die of STDs before you're thirty.

 

i´m glad that you have found your way of living.
I have found another way. This doesn´t mean that one
is better than another. We are just different.

 

Don't be bitter just no woman would ever fuck you. At least you have your hand.

 

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