I'm ok with husand loving another woman

you hopin' he's gonna bring her home and share?

 

Maybe.....We have talked about it....someday......she has to want it too. Right now, that isn't important. We all are getting comfortable with them talking and I am hoping to meet her in the future. I like the fact that he can take care of her again. I can't explain why I like it but it is all good. Today they saw each other at an outting and my husband said it felt good-that she was happy to see him and he likes it that he can come home and talk about her. It's a whole new, exciting time.

 

and how would your husband feel about YOU having this 'second partner'? Would he be as open minded about it as you are? Because i get the feeling that he's getting more out of this situation than you are.

 

i dont think you can love two people at once. I think that even though your not mad and you dont care thats still not right. He lied to you for a long time by going behind your back with another women. Your marriage might have gotten stronger but i mean thats kindof gross. How do you know he really loves this other women and isnt just saying it sohe can get some ass? have you even met this women? I dont think you are in a healthy relationship at all. He coulsd be lieing to you saying that its one women but really it could be multiple women. With the world today you could probly get aids or hiv or something all because he loved to women at once. Also you ave to think well how many people does she sleep with because your pretty much sleeping with the same people she is. I just think cheating is gross and disgusting. I cheated on my boyfirned once but it was only a kiss and i regret it but im glad i didnt do anything else because if you think about it its just not right. I love him very much and he knows that but he also knows if he ever cheats im breaking up with him and i knwo if i ever cheat hes going to leave me. But yeah thats all i have to say so if your happy being with him and your fine with everything then more piower to you but i just think that its wrong.

 

Did you read the thread at all?

 

see thats why I asked if your bisexual.. til umm ya cocked one at me.

bisexuals just tend to be my open and sharing or well the ones I know...

I don't think a straight girl would feel the same way as you. or it's much more unlikely...

 

I am a straight girl. I feel the same way about having an open relationship. So just speak for your self and don't assume to know the way everyone else thinks.

 

I didn't. thats why I said the ones I know.

Don't be so ready to cock that gun. I didn't say anything remotely offensive or towards any one group.

 

So you didn't say this? I'm not cocking a gun I am just responding to your statments.

 

yes i did thats why i basically just said how i feel about it and i just think its wrong. I dont care what she does because its her decision.

 

and your not reading it all. I said it's more unlikely.

 

I read it all but it doesn't matter (not worth arguing).

 

why not? I bet if you look, there's statistics on what different sexually oriental couple's and individuals prefer when it comes to romance and the like.

But I don't care to look. It could be relevent in THIS situation, though of course not yours.

but saying an argument is not worth arguing is only an opinion. It just may not be worth it to you.

plus whats wrong with using the word discussion instead?

 

No buddy have two hearts
there is one love whine this love became cold the scounde love appear u cant say that the first love still here but there is a kind off relation running
but not love