I'm gay and head over heels for someone who i know nothing about. Please help!!

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by adz4115, Aug 16, 2007.

  1. adz4115

    adz4115 Member

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    Ok so this is it. I'm 22 and have been in a fair few realationships with guys. Recently ive been living the single life and enjoying it but last week I went into my local pub and saw this really nice guy behind the bar and hes been on my mind since, I dont think someone who I have only just met has had this kind of effect on me. Since then me and friends have been in there just about everyday (they know about how I feel for this guy) having drinks etc. Its just this guy looks at me as he walks past like there is eye contact with me in our group and nobody else. Can anybody suggest what I do to maybe speak to this guy i'm really nervous about talking to him although I want to very much. The other problem is that he might not feel the same way about guys as I do and then I feel like such an idiot. I know it all sounds quite sad but I feel I need to do something about it even if I dont get the outcome id like Please help anyone! Thanks :)
     
  2. Strangeness

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    Do some E and you will get confidence XD. Lol jk but still just when he passes u pr some thing take a chance worst thing that could happen as he doesnt say any thing. Dont be afraid of rejection.
     
  3. SlickyPants

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    I would pop by the pub a little earlier than normal so that maybe you could drum up a bit of a conversation before the masses start pouring in. If you're lucky he won't be too busy and won't mind a bit of chit-chat.

    That's just the talking to part. I have no advice though for actually finding out if he swings your way.
     
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