My friends and my across-ocean-love.....

Ok, so ,as some of you know, i fell in love with this guy named Andrew, who lives in England. Well, my guy friends know about him and shit, but they are always fucking making fun of him. They say shit like "He's fucking some random chick right now." or "He doesn't love you, he just wants you for your twat." and their favorite "he's gay and he's have gay sex with Ben (his best friend) right now."

The shit they say pisses me off so much. None of them have ever talked to him and none of them know what he's like. I usually slap them on the head or kick them put today, i just couldn't. They went too far. They said that he was out fucking some random chick and then they said that when he comes over we are gonna fuck and hes gonna be saying someone elses name or something retarded. I was so pissed at them, i couldn't even hit them. I just walked out of the room and upstairs.

Im happy for once in my life and they cant even apperciate it.

 

i knwo the feelign hun i jsut got dumnped tho by my girlfrind of 2 years in canada btu peopel put u down and downabotu u lvoe jsut ignor them I dunno if hes as yougn as you are he maybe a little unfaithful but i dont no he maybe mature for hsi age but the british male is the mso tbuncha cheatign basterds int he world but i hope he isnt for u hunny if thats u in ur siggy u are ebautifulk and if the guy is in hsi right midn he wont have cheated on u so dotn worry Hunny i knwo th feelign i got fgiref of my mates for lovign soemon in cada ur gettign it for lovign soemoen in the ulk if u wanna talk hunny WE can talk on msn or if so ill get aim or yahoo so we can chat hopes ur well love ben

 

sounds like theyr ejust teasing you about it, raggin gon you. perhaps instead of hitting them, you should sit them down and have a serious talk, discussing how when they say that stuff all the time it hurts you and you dont like it

 

My guy friends aren't really ones to listen to shit like that. But they are some of the best friends you could ask for

 

probably shouldn't be fucking at 14 anywayz. dya really want 15 babies, chlamidia and be living in a trailer watchin oprah winfrey all day whilst eating a box of chocolates you bought yourself whilst the kids are trashin the place?

maybe i've gone over the top.

 

im not fucking at 14. Im still a virgin. And when he comes over i will be 16

 

It's your life, live it as YOU see fit and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

If you two are truly in love, stay with it. A loving relationship is a good thing to have in life, as it makes life that much more beautiful

 

I would just try and tell your friends and if they dont listen then get angry with them and let them know flat out. I lost my friends because they hated my boyfriend and said some mean things and would even try to break us up. He doesnt live in a different state or anything but they say the same things your friends say. At first i believed my friends because he's 18 and i at the time was 16 but now im 17 so i would think that he was just using me and wanted me for sex and when my friends would say it i would just think more and more about it and i got really depressed from it and sometimes i still get depressed over him for certain things but im madly in love with him and i trust him a lot. Dont give up. Your friends will eventually stop once they meet him im sure of it, just give it time. Goodluck though i hope everything goes well.

 

Well at least you're not seriously prejudiced or anything...

And flannelwearinggal - you could try giving them a taste of their own medicene or if they won't listen to you just try and ignore them - maybe they like teasing you and don't realise how it actually hurts you.

 

i arnt bean prejuiced cos i am british my self i am male english and i know what the majority fo the male propualtion fo the uk are liek i dotn class my self as on of thso peopel who gose roudn fuckgin girls over infatcv it the opisit way round i get fucked over by then there arnt meny faithful brits in my genration but there are soem and i think flower here has one of them

 

That last sentence said it all. They don't appreciate it or respect you from what it seems, so drop them.

Believe it or not, guys who like you will sometimes do this kind of crap. I'm 26 and I've had my 29 year old guy friend (who wants to be with me) tell me that the guy I am talking to at this time is just "fucking with your mind" and "you should drop him". It's an insecurity thing, sweetie.

You just continue on, knowing you are happy.

 

No, i know they dont like me. They are both in love with other chicks. One ois inlove with my sister and the other is inlove with my best friend. I have gone out with both and neither really gave a damn if they were going out with me.

So yeah.



But, i can't just drop them. I love them, they are my guyfriends and they are like my brothers. + they aren't bad to have as friends. Cus if someone every hurts you or something, then they will be on that persons ass like there's no tomorrow.