Ok i was at fball prac the other day and i ended up getting a hernia....the doc said it is a big hernia and i will probably need surgery.....now my question is until i have surgery will it be ok for me and my gf to engage in sexual activity or what..i mean as long as she dont push on my stomach or hit my balls it is all good...do you think it is safe?......Also this dont have anything to do with the hernia but if you wanted to have sex in the water such as pool or hot tub how does it work out...like how do u put the condom on and stuff and is it even safe to have sex in water or does it take too much of a chance for her getting pregnant....some advice or anything would be helpful