I'm 20 yrs old and a virgin,(huh sounds like i'm at an AA meeting) met this girl she seems alright so far and i know she is ready to take it to the "next level", but she doesn't know i'm a virgin and my concern is will i last the distance? i.e. What if i last 5mins, is there or where there any methods you guys out there tried in order to prevent premature ejaculation, or is it a case of practise makes perfect. I invite your answers
Well now, first I have to ask - why doesn't she know you're a virgin? Just because you didn't bother to tell her... or because you lied and said you weren't? If she just doesn't know, maybe you should tell her. She should understand, either way, and not be upset by it if you last 5 minutes. I'll throw this one in too - sometimes in a new relationship, virgin or not, guys don't last incredibly long the first time. I think it's the "ohmygod, sex with a new girl!" that gets 'em. Anyway, if you're really worried and just want to prevent it from happening, try masturbating before you see her. It either works or it doesn't, but worth a try.
What will masturbating archive? so basically if it happens it happens humm not the best of advice, but i shall take it into account
Masterbating will prevent him, hopefully from "blowing it" too early because it takes a certain amount of time to "re-charge" before guys can cum again...
well, i archive all masturbation i see, because i will want to come back and view it again... anyway, for me, sometimes masturbation makes me less sensitive, but sometimes it seems like i finish faster after masturbation too (mind you this is all about self-sex because no one else has been willing to fuck me enough to give me an opinion on that)
i would say its very impressive if you lasted 5 mins on the first go. My first time was the most romantic 30 secs of my life. No matter what the outcome, you'll still be able to learn to control yourself better, so don't sweat it. Masturbation before you think you'll have sex might work. However, this doesn't actually address the control problem. You should be masterbating often up to the point of orgasm, and then trying to stop yourself. This way you'll become familiar with the way your body feels right before ejaculatory inevitability and you'll learn to control it. Whatever happens, if shes the girl worth giving it to, she should be supportive. Also, she'll probably find it charming if you tell her, but if you don't she'll just think you suck. Cheers
