Non-Homophobic Straight Males: How do they react to gay sex?

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by avelium, Aug 4, 2007.

  1. avelium

    avelium Member

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    Do straight NON-HOMOPHOBIC(!) males
    see guys giving BJs (or sex) and react with:

    ..."EWWW"
    ...nothing at all
    ...or think "Hey, I'm not attracted, but I can see how a gay/bi guy might be."
    ...other?

    PLEASE only repond if you have a REAL
    answer based on yourself (straight) or a CLOSE friend.
     
  2. metamorphocid

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    i would feel the same way id feel if i saw 2 straight people having sex: very suprised and oddly amused. id probably laugh. not really feel disgusted though. ive come across it a few times during my misadventures in free porn sites. sex is sex
     
  3. *Andy*

    *Andy* Senior Member

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    I know for a fact that most straight guys are pretty freaked out by it, though whether they just say that to sound tough, I'm not sure. Personally, I don't get bothered by straight porn. It can be a bit of a turn on at times so maybe it's the same for straight guys?
     
  4. PresidentialScandal

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    My (straight) best friend has actually showed me to a porn site that he had been using, and he wanted to show it to me because he knew that I watched porn and because for me, he had checked to see that it had a gay section. Anyway, he had no problem showing me to the section and previewing a couple videos so that I could see that they were good quality and such. At least in his case, he did not seem to have any visible problems with it. I think that most straight guys would turn away as quickly as possible as a reflex, but it widely varies.

    I used to watch straight porn, so if I watch it now I am not repulsed or anything, it's just that now that I know I am gay, there is no reason for me to watch it (and it's not nearly as good).
     
  5. sublime94

    sublime94 Banned

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    Im not straight, but im not gay either. Im semi-bi. I would date a guy, but I would not screw one. Thats a little weird.
     
  6. SlickyPants

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    My best friend and I talk about everything with no shame. Sex, family issues, politics, everything! He's talked about women he's had the hots for and described some of his sexual fantasies and I've also done the same (except with guys I liked obviously) and he doesn't seem to have a problem with it. There has been the odd "ewww!" but they were always dripping in sarcasm. He doesn't have a problem with it at all.

    One time we were driving around, he had his Sony PSP with him. He's a huge PSP fanboy and decided to show off a bit and connect to a wireless network and show me some straight porn. "Can your DS do that?!" he said. I pulled over and pulled out my Nintendo DS and proceeded to bring up some porn, porn that was more to 'my taste.' He just chuckled and said "nice..." in a touché sort of way.
     
  7. metamorphocid

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    since when are straights not horrified by gays?
     
  8. freeinalaska

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    That's awefully stereotypical of the straight community.
     
  9. Cramulus

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    I'm not gay, but my boyfriend is.
     
  10. metamorphocid

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    yes it is an overgeneralization, but it isnt misplaced. stereotypes are rooted in truths.
     
  11. mushie18

    mushie18 Intergalactic

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    Most of my friends aren't grossed out by it, they just don't ever see themselves engaging in gay sex so it's foreign/weird to them.
     
  12. InterestedParty

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    I've actually heard straight guys say when I come on to them, even a little, "suck my dick, fag!" Uh, yeah..
     
  13. mr.morrison

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    im straight. and if i see gay porn, im not turned on at all, but im also not completly repulsed. just a bit weirded out. i just think id be feeling alot more awkward walking in on a gay friend having sex then a straight friend.
     

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