Has anyone else had really bad cyber/phone sex? :(

Ok...im dating someone who is a virgin and we have yet to have sex. We often have had cyber and phone sex and it is usually bad. I mean...I could make myself go and it would be alot less torturous >.>. My boyfriend spends more time on trying to be proper and spends more time "caressing my feet" "and kisses my legs and shins" a million times before he even gets to 2nd base. It drives me insane. And he says weird things like "extrusion" "crotch" "inner parts" to describe body parts.....its such a turn off. But I dont know how to tell him. Ugh. Anyone else go through this?

 

bad cyber yeah but that was with strangrs when i was younger
you need to talk to him about it...
otherwise hell spend 18 years on your legs and shins when you two meet up for real. tell him you like it a little dirtier, to use words like pussy and, that like a lot of women, you like a bit more focus on your pussy/clit than on your legs or shins

 

Wow...a couple days after I posted..my boyfriend out of nowhere got all crazy! , in a good way....he started talking dirty and...wow....its always the quiet ones...the seemingly sweet innocent ones that are freaks behind closed doors, thank god! I am a lucky gal...yup.
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