She won't let me go down.

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well if you think the sex is the only thing that connects you, then no you should get any closer with her.

 

well, I am available if you want and I love it!


why does she say that she doesn't like it?
I didn't like it until I met someone who knew what he was doing..

 

Citygirl57 I'd love to go down on you!! How about a date?

 

OKay, you tell me where and when?

 

wait, one of?
perhaps shes worried about stds? have you, i dunno say, tried asking her why she isnt comfortable with you performing oral sex on her?

 

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Double post

 

Yes "one of" I am an adult. I can date without settling with one person. She just says it makes her feel dirty, that is the only reason.

 

Honestly... I hate a guy going down on me... i will not let his face down there period... Everyone says im weird and that just let me try it and i promise you'll let every guy do it to you.. and i just cant do it. It makes me feel dirty and really uncomfortable so i understand where she is coming from. I dont understand why guys like it... Id much rather give a guy a blow job 50 a day then him go down on me.

 

I can't imagine how someone could feel dirty doing it. Maybe she had a bad experience with it or something, like someone made a comment that she took to heart. How long have you been seeing her? Maybe give her a couple more chances and see if she comes around when she's a little more comfortable with you. To ease into it, start with your fingers then add in a little tongue here and there, taking it slow and gauge it from there.

 

Great advice

 

i never called you a child. i just hope thath your partners know that you are sexually active with morem than one person

that said, id listen to lace and feets advice. basically, youi can either be patient and understanding adn see if she will change her mind over time (time can be up to years, and certainly longer than days), or you can dump her because of one aspect of sex and find someone else to lick out

 

I dont like getting eaten out. I think its really gross and taste nasty. My boyfriend tried and it just didnt work out to well and then i felt embarassed from his reaction but i dont anymore because i warned him many times before he did it and he didnt listen but after he tried i just felt really weird afterwards. But i dont know i guess if you dont love her or anything then let her go but just because she wont let you go down doesnt mean she wont let you in the future. Give her time. Maybe you should just ask her why she doesnt want you to because she might have a really good reason.

 

Dump her now. If it's something important to you, try imagining going without it for the rest of your life.

I take it from the fact that you call her "one of the girls I am seeing" you must not be serious yet. Trust me, dump her before you do get serious and you have to choose emotions over sexual satisfaction. Right now it's an easy choice, if you get attached later on it will be more difficult.

I don't mean to sound callous, but sex is an important part of relationships. It's not the only thing, but it is way up there in importance and if you are unhappy or frustrated sexually, it will take away from your relationship and you may even develop resentment. Hell, you might even go elsewhere to get that one little thing that your significant other won't do.

I repeat, if you enjoy it, it's important to you and it will be difficult to live without for the rest of your life; do yourself a favor and dump her now before you get attached.

 

By the way, to any ladies that think to flame me because of how I feel, it's not a masculine issue. I understand some ladies simply don't enjoy being eaten out.

Likewise, I would never marry a woman who can't live without say, tonguing my asshole. It's not going to happen and if she feels denied and frustrated by the fact that I won't let her, then she should look elsewhere, because it will never happen.

My opinion is based on that of a realist as to the importance of a satisfying sex life in relationships, not anti-"ladies who don't like cunnilingus".

 

Kill her or move on.

 

Its possible she is just shy about her body, and is insecure. have you tried doing this with the lights off? or complimenting her and telling her that you enjoy doing it? also, before you dump her talk to her about it, and try to get it out of her why she wont let you do it anymore

 

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Any and every night. If you're serious, PM me!