Do guys lose interest after they ejaculate?

Discussion in 'Oral Sex' started by Oblivious_GaL, Aug 5, 2007.

  1. Oblivious_GaL

    Oblivious_GaL Member

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    Hey All, I wanna ask do all men lose all their interest after they ejaculate? Im a virgin by the way and he's the only guy whom ive done oral sex with and vice versa.So when we were giving each other pleasure, it was so hot and heavy and he was so passionate towards me.as long as he hasnt cum, he'll be all over me and i feel so loved.so when i gave him a handjob and when he did ejaculate, that was it.it ended just like that.then after that he didnt cuddle me or anything.he totally lost interest in me and starts doing something else.i felt so hurt and so rejected.i hate the feeling.So one day, we were talking abt it and i told him abt how i felt and he explained to me that guys r like that.they wld get satisfied after they ejaculate and they can only get turned on back if girls starts the ball rolling again.is it true?
    by the way, i wanna know how does women taste like down there?i've asked him before and he said that he doesnt know how to describe the taste.so i'm still curious abt it.
     
  2. BellaTheBrat

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    My hubby definitely does...after he's cum, he's done, so we make sure to get the cuddling and lovin' done before he gets off. We're madly in love, and married 12 years, so don't take it personally, sweetie. That's just how some men are wired. As soon as my honey has an orgasm, he wants a cold soda, a cigarette, and some food, LOL.


    And, darlin', if you're curious about how a woman tastes, taste yourself. After he has you aroused (or you have yourself aroused), dip a finger in there, and taste yourself.
     
  3. Allonym

    Allonym cheesecake slut

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    me and my bf almost always cuddle after sex or after he ejaculates, even if he jerks himself off that night because im exhausted (or finishes himself by hand after ivegiven him head for a while)... but every couple is different
     
  4. Aladdin

    Aladdin Banned

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    I think you and your boyfriend have issues, but not with eachother.

    Dear girl youre 21! And you ask these questons, where you brought up in a monestary?

    And youre boyfriend seems gay, I dont think its "faith" that have brought you together, but the fear of the other sex.
     
  5. mushie18

    mushie18 Intergalactic

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    agreed.
     
  6. Crimson

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    ok on a guys point of view.. yes most guys do "lose interest" but its not with you believe me.. i think its a chemical thing like the switch is turned off.. but let me tell u this.. give him like 10 minutes and a cig (if thats his thing) and he will be ready to go again if u want.. and even if you dont want to he will wanna cuddle with u.. but after a guy cums its almost like a cool down period.. and as far as a girls taste.. its almost like a sharp tangy taste.. very nice and one of a kind
     
  7. eechi

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    I dont think all guys are like that, i know mine gets super cuddly, but then again what i do when he's done is, i keep touching him, caressing him, keeping him *slightly* in the mood enough not to lose complete interest in it. You could try just gently fondling him, entice him back into the mood XD
     
  8. mushie18

    mushie18 Intergalactic

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    I know what you're saying but cuddling and "getting him back into the mood" are very different.

    I'm a guy. I like to fuck and afterwards i like to cuddle; granted i'm a fag. But sexual activity and cuddling is very different.
     
  9. eechi

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    Well if she keeps fondling him eventually he'll get it up again XD....I dunno, works on my bf!
     
  10. Oblivious_GaL

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    ok that's a relief to know..thanks all..appreciate it lots :)
     
  11. Bmahcc

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    This girl knows men. We all lose interest afterwards. But definately for me, if you keep touching and whatever, it helps. The loving/cuddling stuff has to wait for about 10 minutes afterwards. Keep it sexual. I think guys seperate love and sex a bit more than women.
     
  12. eechi

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    oh undoubtedly guys lose interest, im just saying it is possible to keep them at least semi errect straight after they cum so long as you're gentle about it XD
     
  13. steenarina

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    every woman tastes different. depends on diet and what not. ive heard that the more fruit you eat the sweeter it will be compared to eating mostly meats. if you want to know what YOU taste like then explore yourself a little.or when he is done down there, just give him a big kiss before he cleans up. he will find that really hot too.
     
  14. Magnum PI

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    After about 10 minuets you should sit facing him, take one hand and cup his balls and "gently" roll them in your fingers, while "gently" pumping his cock. Kissing him tenderly and reminding him how much you love him will all play the winning roll in his ego and have him ready in no time.

    You have to really play to his ego after he cums since men are wired this way and we feed off the praise of our woman. You can kill us or make us kings with your words. That's your power over us. Use it wisely, espically with his sexuality.
     
  15. Bmahcc

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    I was agreeing with you dear.
     
  16. eechi

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    XD....my bad!!
     

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