Well long story short, my best friend of seven years and boyfriend of four years is coming home from is coming home from Iraq in a couple of weeks. I finally decided I wanted 2 sleep with him. I’m kind of scared/nervous I know he will be gentle and take it slow but his four years older and has a lot of experience. He also is very well indwelled (10 inches) so … he told me about the 1st girl he slept with and she was a virgin 2 and hurt he her really badly. And I have no clue how to act or deal with something like this so I could use some advice.
err id make him finger you quite a lot for a few weeks before you have sex, and also make sure your as wet as you can be before. Not much else you can do, unlucky he has a huge thingy, maybe wont be later but for first time kinda is. Id also only suggest only to use part of his penis...like 6inches at most till your used to it. hope helps slightly...
Well, My suggestion is to get some astroglide, its great lube. I know you probably don't want to hear it but it will help things, and definitely get him to losen you up a bit. Take it slow for a while. But in the mean while use a toy might help to. I've never been in this situation. I'm trying to give my best advice but really thats all you can do is losen yourself up or have him help you.
hate to tell you this, but you won't enjoy it the first time. it does get better though. just remember to relax. you might bleed, but that's normal. i hope you plan on protection? dont let him cum inside you, even with a condom on. they break. i had a close call once, now he pulls out no matter what. also, might be wise to get some k-y. helps a lot. i had this similar problem a couple of months ago, when i lost my virginity. he didn't even get it in the first two nights! he got pretty frustrated one night. but it takes a while. but it won't always be painful.
