I started a thread over in the masturbation section, but didnt recieve much help...all i got was a bunch of guys wanting me to send them pics...so i found this section and figured i would give this a shot.... ok, so i am 17 years old...never had sex....my boyfriend knows i dont want to until i am married....i have never even thought about masturbating until recently...i touched myself when i was younger, but more out of curiosity not pleasure...well, during a road trip with my high school softball team, masturbation got brought up by some girls on my team.....well, at first i was really uncomfortable listening to them cause i had never done it, and i didnt want them to start asking me questions...well, the more they started talking about things (and i mean detailed talking), I started envisioning them doing what they were saying....and it got me excited!! So when i got home, i started looking for videos and pictures of porn online of girls masturbating....well it did nothing for me....didnt even excite me at all...so, i left it be....well, i started thinking about them and that conversation, and got all excited again!! Now, i dont know what to do.....im unexperienced with touching myself, im finding that imagining my friends touching themselves gets me going, and internet porn does nothing!! so i tried looking for girls my age on the internet, touching themselves to see if that would help...but yea, apparently thats against the law to put that kind of stuff online!!! lol....so, im stuck!!! Any help?!?! or suggestions?!?! PLEASEEE!!!
you're not into impersonal sex. you prefer a connection to people. that's pretty healthy. i don't like random images of strangers, either.
yea, but i cant just ask my friends for pictures...that would cause all kinds of issues, plus i am wayyy to shy to do all that.....but just the thought of seeing that gets me sooo excited!! or being able to watch someone my age gets me going.....not all these stupid porn sites...i mean, i like to think i am a pretty girl, and i dont have problems getting attention from guys, but thats just not interesting to me...the thought of my boyfriend jerking off, makes me ill!! and i would never do it for him...maybe im just weird....or maybe i am lesbian...i dont knowwwwww
yeah, kind of a pinch. DO NOT ASK FOR PICS. that would probably traumatize your friends, objectifying them like that. have you perhaps considered discussing this with young people on the gay forum? it's not really something i've ever had to think about, so you'd probably do better speaking to like minded, like aged people. of course, there's no limits to what's in your mind. i don't see why pics are necessary.
maybe you might like reading stories. I know I can't stand watching porn but reading a sexy story does it for me. as for masturbation, just do what feels nice thats what i do.
if you are looking for girls your age, look up "teen". its normal for girls your age to be stimulating to you and not ya know, the 30 year old pornstar women.Becuase those women are just unrealistic. if you don't know what you are doing with yourself down there, there are masturbation techniques and that sort of thing you can find all over the internet.good luck.
