Reciprocating a 1st BJ Even If I'm Uncomfortable After Receiving?

I asked for a blowjob in bed because it felt perfect. It was amazing. I'm exploring if I'm gay or bisexual and he's been unusually nice and patient.

I feel obligated to reciprocate, but since waking up that next morning with him next to me, I feel (very) uncomfortable reciprocating.

I just get sort of scared/uncomfortable/sad thinking about it.

Should I give one? Even if I don't completely want to? Isn't it sort of required? :|

 

it's not required. the way i think of it, giving is a whole different mindset that recieving.

if you're not comfortable with doing it, then don't. don't do anythign you might regret later. if you need to wait, then wait. let him know. if hes been nice and patient, then theres quite a possibility that he will understand.

 

It's not required by any means but If I gave one I would definitely expect something in return.

....At least a handjob

 

You do what you are ready to do, what you are comfortable with, what you can live with. When you give something to someone you shouldn't expect something in return. You give because you choose to give. Perhaps you have already given him something he wanted anyway...you gave him your body for him to enjoy and you recieved pleasure too. When you are sure about your feelings, then you act on them. Otherwise it may feel wrong and spoil it for both of you. Sometimes just saying thank you, and maybe holding him is a fine return of pleasure.

 

Seizedbyanger, mushie18 and yarapario...

your replies are really thoughtful.

I'm so pleasantly suprised, thank you. This helps me.

 

I can't say from experience but if I went down on a guy I'd kind of hope he'd return the favour. It is not, however, a prerequisite for me and I would definitely understand if he was uncomfortable about it or having second thoughts. It'd be nice but it's not required.

 

im the opposite.. im all for pleasing my partner.