a friend and i

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Soya, Jul 31, 2007.

  1. Soya

    Soya Member

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    i know a guy whos name is Mark. we were friends for 3 years now and are realy close, but are not boyfriend and girlfriend. his girlfriend had dumped him, and he was very upset. he called me and told me of his sadness, so i called him over to my house to talk. at the time, my parents and sister were not home. so he came over and we sat together on the couch, talking. he said that his girlfriend left him for another man. then, he started to cry on my shoulder. i was thinking way to man up, Mark. crybaby. my boyfriend had left me too a month ago, and im not crying about it.
    anyway, i started to stroke his hair. then, i dont know why, we kissed. i fell back on the couch, with him on top of me, still kissing. he put a hand up my shirt and started feeling my breats, and put a hand down my skirt to my clit. then, we took off our clothes and he started to fuck me. some part of me wanted him to stop, but it felt so good. when he cummed inside me, it was a nice warm feeling. hen, he said he had to go and got his clothes on and left. i lay there on my couch for 10 minutes, thinking. my first time with a man... then it occured to me that he didn't use a condom. i started to worry that i would become pregnant. i felt guilty about it, and a bit scared too. now whenever i see mark, i run away. what should i do? WHAT IF I GET PREGNANT! OMG!

    yes, i admit this is my fault. i should not have allowed him to fuck me.
     
  2. Marija

    Marija Senior Member

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    when did this happen?
    if it's one-2-3 days ago you can still thae the emergency pill not to get pregnant
    OMG go to a doctor!
     
  3. Naoki_ninja

    Naoki_ninja Bruce Lee's hero

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    i would worry, but don't give yourself a heart attack; go to the doctor and find out what's happening. you might be freaking out for nothing.
     
  4. Soya

    Soya Member

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    it was 6 days ago.. is there a way to stop it?
     
  5. Soya

    Soya Member

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    k thanks.
     
  6. Naoki_ninja

    Naoki_ninja Bruce Lee's hero

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    no problem; this sounds dumb, but drink tea. it's relaxing.
     
  7. Marija

    Marija Senior Member

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    the morning after pill is functionale only 72 hours after the sex,
    the spiral is 5 days,

    so i can't help you here, but you should def go to a doctor, maby there is some way to stop pregnancy that i don't know
     
  8. Allonym

    Allonym cheesecake slut

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    after six days, you get to pray and get a preg test in another week or two
     
  9. Musikero

    Musikero Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    When was your last period? Are you regular?
     
  10. redyelruc

    redyelruc The Yard Man

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    Soya,
    Nothing you can do for a while, you just gotta wait. Try and relax. Stressing yourself out won't help. As far as the pregnancy test goes, I believe(have read somewhere) that they are not quite accurate until after your next period is due.

    Next time, BE CAREFUL and RESPONSIBLE.

    Peace,
    Aidan
     
  11. HereIAm

    HereIAm Member

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    i hope it all works out for you. It was a mistake. But if it felt good, i realise it can be hard to stop.

    Naima.
     
  12. mlee27

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    "kind of wanted to stop, it felt good, cum inside of me, " not too responsible...good luck though
     

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