My girlfriend hates receiving oral... Can anyone out there tell me why this might be? I have been fortunate enough on 2 very drunk occasions for her to let me go down for a couple minutes -- enough to reassure her that she tastes great. We are very open with each other and I have expressed her great taste to her. on a sidenote...she says she has never had an orgasm -- neither by herself, nor with others. I feel like oral is my best chance of giving her first orgasm, but she just doesn't want anything to do with it. She is 25.
shes probably self concious. Keep reassuring her. If you are very open, why dont you just ask her flat out?
... I did, and her response was "I don't really know... I just don't like it..." She is very confident about her self and in general... I don't see why she would be self conscience about this. Not saying your comment is invalid or anything, I just doesn't seem a likely case for her.
well when i was way younger i didnt like eating out my girlfriend but after i did it a few times i loved it after that so maybe if you do it more she will start to like it
i agree, she's probably self-conscious. don't be too pushy about it, just ask every now and then and remind her how much you enjoy it. when she lets you, make sure you're very, very gentle. she'll probably come around eventually, so to speak.
I'll throw in something other than "maybe she's self-conscious"... I don't like it, either. And I've known a few other girls that don't. They aren't self-conscious, and I certainly am not. I'm married, my husband likes doing it, he's good and all... I just don't like it. Never really have, never could exactly say why, it just doesn't interest me. I'd much MUCH rather be giving than receiving, and honestly, I don't feel the need to explain why. I've told my husband that he's good, and that I'm not self-conscious about it or anything, and that's enough explanation for him. Some girls just don't like it. Maybe talk to her about it, see if that's the case, and if so, just drop it.
