Hi. I had this dream resently and i don't understand it: I am at my girlfriends(GF) house with my girlfriend's best friend(girl). My GF goes outside for some reason and me and girl are in the same room. After a little while me and the girl start making out, and watching through the window, checking that my GF will not see us. What does this dream mean?
Could be simple wish fulfillment, or maybe there's something that attracts you or interests you, a quality of your girlfriend's friend, and you're feeling shame or something? You really have to take into consideration your own feelings during the dream, because they're such a subjective experience. I mean, people could try and analyze your own dreams for you, but everything has different meaning to you, and you have different emotional reactions.
well i think your subconscouse, or something, is trying to tell you something about the true nature of love. and that isn't anything like what the cultural values in a monogamous society try to tell you it is. i don't think i'd really take it as anything more or else then that. you know there are things our subconscous can tell us in our dreams, that the coerciveness of human society keeps us lying to ourselves about when we're awaike. that's one of the things we need dreams for and how they keep us healthy, although a few people have also become or done unhealthy things by forgetting the realities people outside of dreams create and the differences between the two. the're both real, but in seperate parallel ways, and only each within themselves. within each other they are mostly just this completely seperate thing. you know like the budhist and the butterfly bit. but anyway, this insight, that we're often inhibited from having when awaike, well it's useful for just what it is like that. and this is what i see as kind of an example of that sort of thing. of course you do know that girls steal guys from each other the same way guys steal girls from each other so sort of one up each other and all that ego sort of thing, sometimes intentionaly and sometimes without realizing that's what's going on. there are some species in nature that are inhierently monogamous. ours however, just happens, NOT to be one of them. =^^= .../\...
sounds like a very real personal reflection. are you feeling unfulfilled in this relationship? do you often feel carnal desires or sexual tension when other women are around you? sounds like you need to reflect, dude. maybe even try out your options. your dream could also symbolize your well-being, or self-worth; meaning you could very well be feeling like you're being reduced, or 'stooping too low' in this relationship you're in. in either case, good luck!
