I've only had my first time 3 weeks ago with a close friend which was the niciest way to lose {if odd to some people} but I found even after having I still don't feel that excitible, sex doesn't really interest me, I'd rather have a hug. Is this unusual or abnormal esp for a guy?
no i dont think its unusual.. that just means your not a horny guy all the time.. honestly im the same way.. it drives my girlfriend nuts cuz i can go a few weeks without sex and she wants it all the time.. but i think your right.. sometimes a hug and a kiss and cuddling is just as nice as getting a piece.. but dont worry dude.. all guys get horny sooner or later
some people just have lower libidos, some are even asexual (wiki or google it if you need to)... just make sure you warn any gf that you have a lower sex drive since some of us have pretty high sex drives ourselves
Unusual, yes. Unheard of, no. Like Allonym said, some people crave sex more than others. Probably researchers have come up with some sort of statistical average for horniness, but so what if you happen to fall below it? Somebody has to. Instead of fretting about how normal or abnormal you are, do what feels right to you. Yes, your chances of landing a free-spirited nymph are pretty slim, but so are your chances of being ice-picked by her jealous husband.
yes BUT if he was ice picked by a nymphs jealous husband, wouldn't it be ironic that he didn't even get a piece?
when i first started i didnt see the need to have sex a lot. in fact i didnt see the big deal. more sex and being "in love" certainly makes you want it more. in my opinion anyway
messageboards are cool.... i don't know. about the question... sometimes i'm like that too. just make excuses.
See now.... i think im out of the norm for a female because I want sex all the time. I have like 2 girl friends and other than that everyone around me is a guy and I dont know if there sex talks have rubbed off on me or what but I want it constantly. I watch tv and something comes up or a song that like reminds me of a guy or sex and Im ready to go. I not im not the only female with a big sex drive but I feel awkward about it...
