I've never been asked out

well, my dates were always so excited to be going out with me. but every single one of them confessed they never would have asked me out. dave says i'm intimidating. i've come to accept that this must be true. because once i make the overtures, show an interest in going out, broke the ice by taking them out first, they were all about dating me. shyness is sometimes mistaken for uppitiness, a lack of interest.

 

You are very pretty.I know how you feel.Maybe you should try asking some guy out.

 

even if they just pursue them a bit

my girl just added me on myspace and I appreciated it :tongue:

 

Lots of guys are probably interested , and would LOVE to ask you out , but are probably freaked out thinking that they might sound stupid , or might be rejected , I imagine it must be pretty scarey to be a young guy and want to go out with a certain girl so bad......but be TERRIFIED of sounding like a dweeb , or looking foolish if she says No.

 

Well, I'm almost 21 and I've never been kissed...Just thought I'd give you something to look forward to

But seriously, I don't believe in dating. I believe in being friends first; no one acts like themselves when they have an alterior motive. And at this point I really don't want to waste my first kiss on someone I don't really care about. Besides, boys your age suck. At least wait until university. You aren't missing out, don't worry.

 

Oooh I really don't want to bump this thread because it's really embarrassing :S but since writing this I've had one boyfriend of sorts and I've been kissed by 2 people. And my life is now a hell of a lot more complicated, but hey...

 

haha yeah i remember i made a similar topic myself around a year ago.
truth is, i had my first kiss around 2 weeks ago, and the entire night from that point was awesome... heheh but now everything is far more complicated and hard.

confidence is deffo the number one thing, something i always lacked, but through arrogance and peer praise eventually gained.

however, you know shit sucks when ur first relationship with someone lasts around 12 days, and thens its fucked up.

also its nothing to be embarassed about i think, i was before - but now i dont think its that big of a deal at all

 

Nynysuts, if you told me that in person I would have asked you out on the spot. You're beautiful!

 

You are a beautiful young lady. If this place has taught me anything, it's that if no one is willing to like you for who you are ,then they can go fuck themselves. All you need are you're friends (even if you don't have many) and these folk right here to lift you're spirits if you're friends can't.

And those boys have to be crazy if they aren't to notice you or ask you out.

plus, who wants to date highschool boys? They are quite insane. lol.

 

dont feel bad. i havent had a boyfriend ever either.

 

Maybe you are just so good looking all the guys get nervous around you and dunno what to say.

 

ah same here. i think its probably cause i come off as somebody who dosen't want that, but i do im just really shy. idk maybe you need to open up, i probably need to work on that as well.

 

Trust me, now I';ve had 'going ons' with 3 guys it's really not worth the hassel.

 

Don't be embarrassed at all hon.. I didn't do the "boy" thing till I was almost 20 :biggrin:... I never had guys ask me out or anything of the like either, sure when I was in my teens it made me feel like there was something wrong with me... I was very shy and a loner to where I just wanted to learn and get my education so I can advance and get out of there, I was more interested in reading books than hanging at the mall and hitting on boys, and somehow that put me in a category of "stay away from her" But I realized how glad I am that I didn't have to deal with that stuff, I saw my friends and they were consumed by boys and they seemed pretty miserable... Okay, this is going off on a tangent and I apologize.. Just enjoy being young, you have your whole life ahead of you.. And remember that there is nothing wrong and don't be embarrassed..

I don't know if this makes sense plus I know this thread is old but I will just say then that this is about the topic in general and not specifically your case..Perhaps I should read a whole thread before commenting huh...:biggrin:...

 

ur cute just assert yourself more and show off your personality and I am sure dudes will be all over you.

 

yeah, ive got pretty much the same(ish) problem but im a guy...and btw you are one of the beytter looking girls i have seen