Don't get too obsessive over a guy I met a girl about 2 weeks ago and exchanged numbers with her. I'd surprised if there was one guy in here that would say no to her, fit as fuck. But she's too obsessive. She constantly rings, well drop calls me to ring her but if I don't ring her back she starts ringing me non-stop. Great to talk to on the phone but 5 mins after I hang up after about 1, sometimes even 3 hrs on the phone she wants me to ring her again. I CONSTANTLY receive texts from her and if I ignore then she sends texts asking "why are you ignoring me?" LOL GIVE ME 5 MINUTES OF MY OWN!! It's starting to get a bit sickly and she must have tried to phone me about 30 times this morning and has sent 6 texts. Everytime I get a call or a text now it's like "oh F.F.S, what NOW?" whereas at the start it was like "cooooooooooool she's keen." Just felt like telling someone this that's all and a little advice for the women
i have had very similar experiences with men before - both genders are bad at doing that you need to tell her to back off or she wont
i agree; she was over the top im sure; but she was probably just scared that you were a player and that you had what you wanted and you were disposing of her like an old hat.
Eh... that sounds like advice I need to listen to. Maybe I could try to explain the mindset of someone whos that need... It's difficult though because I only get into that mindset when I get panicy. Basically she really doesn't trust you at all, some how you have to show your trustworthy and from the sound of it, its going to have to be an extreme showing of it.
You get worried that if you back off of someone they will be gone and you feel like you have to do or say something or you lose them and I know in most cases people wont do that but you get irrationally worried that your the exception. I'm working on my neediness and the only way I could have made any progress was to be dumped which sounds weird but its what helped me get over the needyness.
