Do you keep a sh*t list ?

If so, what were the infractions? How do people get off it? Has anyone died while still on it ?

 

Nah. That's spiteful.

Hey Duncan, long time eh?

 

no shit list...i just kill them right then and there. no taking time out to put them on some list and waiting for the "right" moment...

just quicker to off them when they piss me off

 

I try not to. Holding grudges isn't good for your mental health. Rage is cigarette smoking for your mind.

 

My shit list is generally very short or non-existent. I don't hold grudges too long.

 

I've never heard of that term, with you being a nurse I thought you where talking about bowel movements
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I have had a few people on it in the past but I have mostly discarded the list- with all but one person, list fully discarded and since I will never know who that person is....

 

No, I forgive everyone in my mind and heart. Harboring resentment is unhealthy. I had ulcers on and off for the past three years and as soon as I let everything bad in my life flow out of my spirit they magicallly went away.

 

when people do things that are percivabley unforgivable it is usually because they are ill or evil and that's not their fault. My father is a diagnosed sociopath and ya know that's not his fault. Some people are just inherintly bad people; born that way.

 

folks i cant attack. my birth father,adopted mother adopted brother,thera(she murdered me) the fat ladies that ran me over, the guy that killed sasquatch (hes a gutterpunk not bigfoot) the idiots that took shithead on a boat. Shitheads a person he drowned high n drunk.

 

no, i don't keep a shitlist, and the only thing it takes to get off of mine is for the offending behaviour to stop and stay that way. as for what behavior offends, its all those things that innocently create incentives for creating the policies that end up resaulting in suffering. that and forcing me to hear about it.

basicly i've never been offended by anyone i didn't know existed, other then by whatever cultural values annoid me that their priorities contributed to the markets for creating.

nothing that escapes my notice offends me as long as it continues to do so and can SAFELY be allowed to.

though i do rather tend to frown upon genocides, that sort of thing, even when i don't hear about them.

adamantly refusing to have a conscience does get people on mine, but not if i don't have to live with them or know they exist. if people want to do that in their own padded room where it won't hurt anyone else then that is their own bussiness.

and demonizing everthing that refuses to kiss the ass of little green pieces of paper, yah, that offends me too.

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I had a metaphorical one in high school. We never wrote it down, but we named it "The Bus List" and everyone on it was to get on a bus that we would drive off a cliff, but not without first securing a brick to the gas pedal and having the driver jump to safety. It was a great list and most of the school was on there at one point or another.

 

Nope, as life is just too short.

Lordy this is the net, if I am going to hold that much crap in on the net and let that bleed into life.....I have a problem. Never mind a fellow poster.

I post and then walk as it is not my life, it is just a post.

I post and walk away........life is good.

 

i don't keep a physical list but if you did something so bad to me that i remember every detail of it. then damn you deserve to be on a list....................



i do remember the name of every single person who made my 4th - 11th grade years a living hell and i try to just let it go, but they are the reason i am so emotionally unstable and insecure with myself and YES they are on my non existent shit list........



i spent a long part of my life thinking i was totally ugly and trying to prove myself to the world because of these people and i can not get over it, it is silly i know but they hurt me so bad i never was able to shake it.......... thank Jah I finally got over my self image issues and can really see myself now when i look in the mirror. the way i saw myself back then was completely distorted...



it is probably totally creepy but i used to draw pictures of them hanging dead in trees..........

 

Perfectly normal, perfectly healthy behaviour...

 

I could never and will never have a "hate list".

People hurt you, sure... some people hurt you alot... but they key to it all if forgiveness and understanding.

The only person that I truly couldn't forgive for a while was my father, for making my childhood a living hell, but... I did forgive him. I actually talked to him for the first time in almost two years 3 weeks ago.

Just forgive, it's rather simple when you think about it... and very therapeutic.

 

reAD MY SIG

 

Yes I have one.
There is no way to get off it.

 

except death

 

No but I pretend to have one with one person. Only because it's funny when he gets pissy.