Dirty, horrible dream

Discussion in 'Oral Sex' started by AgentR, Jul 25, 2007.

  1. AgentR

    AgentR Member

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    The other night I dreamed that I was having sex with my uncle. I was giving him a blowjob and everything and the scaring fact was that I was actually horny in this dream. When I awoke I just thought wrong, wrong and more wrong.
     
  2. StayLoose1011

    StayLoose1011 Senior Member

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    These things happen :) I don't really feel like sharing any details, but I know where you're coming from. Whenever it happens to me, I just try to think about it as little as possible, hehe.
     
  3. metalgodz

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    I have done a lot of work with dreams over the years. Ultimately these dream books they sell are off base a bit with definitions of objects seen, things encountered.

    Studied by shrinks and dream labs it seems our dreams break down into a combination of the following:

    some dreams are psycho babble - your mind unwinding from the day/weeks activities and concerns

    some dreams are messages from your subconscious to your conscious - trying to relay messages to you

    some dreams are flights of fancy - fantasy & wierdness can take place

    some dreams are mental banishings and can have bad things to them

    the list goes on basically.........

    just because you dreamt something does not mean there is something sick and wrong with your head deep inside.

    Ultimately no one can tell you what your dreams *might mean and neither can any book. Your best to record your dreams in a book - almost immediately upon waking - make notes if you want to go really into it about what you did the day or night before and how you felt and keep it going. Dont wait or tell yourself "i'll write it down later" and go back to it you WILL FORGET - it's unavoidable, happened to me and millions tons of times.

    In this society we are trained & programmed to take the negative, self hurting spin on things like this. We are programmed sex is wrong and basically evil.

    Here is what a session or two or three might say/conclude with you about this (really just poking at the obvious patterns they follow, but):

    If your relationship with your uncle is good - (possibly the dream was you telling your conscious you love him more than you want to admit in the waking world) and (maybe something is telling you to get closer to him)

    If your relationship with him is bad - possible spin they might take on it is (maybe this dream is an internal wish for him to do something good to you or get more close to you) or reverse (this dream is a desire or interperatation for your wanting him to violate you - and the REASOn fr that can be very, very varied and complicated - thats a whole other topic)

    I'm just poking at two possibles were you to go that far with concern for this dream. Ultimately, it's my attempt to make you feel better about whats troubling you and to show you in a small way I'm not just talking out of my ass.

    Even now as we speak I am having strange dreams about my recent ex. I dont want them and even mentally shut them out - but I know they will come anyway and I cant fight it. I also know that we only remember like 10 % of the dreams we have in one night - as we have many, many, many dreams per night/sleep session.

    I hope this shed some light on you and helps you shake off a case of the oogies.


    Take care,

    Metalgodz
     
  4. Hyzenthlay

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    I've had sex dreams about my father, and I don't want to jump him in real life. I've had dreams about gang rape, animals...you name it, I've had a wet dream over it. And yet, I still have yet to fuck a donkey.

    So, basically, I think you're good. :)
     
  5. Allonym

    Allonym cheesecake slut

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    or it may just be as simple as you fell asleep horny and yoru subconscious was processing some info about your uncle so the dream melded the two. realy, who cares? i dreamt that i fucked my landlord (who has a very nice wife) and that certainly didnt com eot fruition
     
  6. WoodstockChild

    WoodstockChild Intrepid Traveler!

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    I had an erotic dream about Robert Plant
    That sounds perfectly ok
    Except
    It wasn't young Robert Plant.
    I'm talking 50+.
    So basically I dreamed I had sex with an old man.
    Don't feel bad.
     

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