how do you meet guys??

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Peace Attack, Jul 23, 2007.

  1. Peace Attack

    Peace Attack Make War

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    I recently got over a bad relationship and want to meet some new guys. But i have no idea how to go about doing that...like if i see a boy who i think is cute what the hell do I say?
     
  2. lakeoffire

    lakeoffire Live.Laugh.Fuck.

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    Go up to him and start random conversation. Or you can give him a look so he knows your checking him out, he may come over and start a convo with you. It really depends on the setting though. I usually go to the Plymouth Waterfront, thats the cool place to be in my parts. hahaha.
     
  3. Allonym

    Allonym cheesecake slut

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    to be honest ive met all but one of my bfs online. its worked out pretty well, since i tend to talk to them for a while before actually meeting them face to face
     
  4. umm...ya

    umm...ya over joyed!

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    I met mine (soon to be husband) online too. I never like the bar scene. I met guys at school and online.
     
  5. Naoki_ninja

    Naoki_ninja Bruce Lee's hero

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    poke the guy you like in the belly, then run away giggling...haha!!! lol. but in all seriousness, just be yourself; have fun!
     
  6. mlee27

    mlee27 Member

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    walk up to hima nd say hello?
     
  7. Bella Désordre

    Bella Désordre Charmed

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    I met my fiancee on this forum!!!
    Prior to him I met guys usually while grocery shopping, getting coffee or just doing everyday things. I met a few people off of EHarmony and they were all very nice. I just wasn't ready to settle down at the time and everyone on that site kinda was.
     
  8. EXAchilles

    EXAchilles Member

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    Ask him to grab a cup of coffee, or a burger, or something. Food is a good little icebreaker, as it allows you to just chat and gives you something to start talking about, even if it's something as little as how good the coffee is.

    Just talk, be you. Find a common ground, do something. Start with a hello, or meet a guy in a class (if you're still going to school), most guys would be receptive to a girl who looks as cute as you walking up and being forward with them.
     
  9. sam420wise

    sam420wise Member

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    you're very pretty, you should have no problem with guys. you could say pretty much anything.... i know i'd be interested in such a cute girl talking to me
     
  10. stacy lulu

    stacy lulu yeeeaah buddy

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    You're 18! Go out and go to bars or dance clubs, I highly doubt you're gonna find a non-horny guy there but its worth a chance :)
     
  11. free2fly

    free2fly Members

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    I met my boyfriend here, on hipforums. He sent me a message first, and we got to talking ... after a few months we met at the Colorado National gathering last summer .... and, I went back to the west coast to live with him, and now we've moved back to NC where I came from. Anyways ... we obviously hit it off, lol :) Meeting someone online can work!
     
  12. spooner

    spooner is done.

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    I cannot stand it when random girls try to talk to me... To the point where I am more assholeish than is probably deserved.
     
  13. jonnydisaster5

    jonnydisaster5 Member

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    punk shows.
     
  14. its_des10e

    its_des10e Member

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    I'm with her. I've done the same. Chatting online can be a less nerve-wracking experience, and it can be a great way to get to know someone initially so you can see if you want to date them at all. :)
     
  15. wanderin_blues

    wanderin_blues Banned

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    i just spend time in places i like by myself or with my dog and i tend to meet guys somehow lol
    the dog works really well actually, if there is another dog nearby, my dog has to meet it, especially if the other dog has a hot guy attached!
     
  16. sanja_serbia

    sanja_serbia Senior Member

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    Well, for me, when I try to meet someone I never do, and it happens when I least expect it, so maybe you shouldn't push things and just do what you're doing......You really are pretty girl so you won't have problems with meeting boys - just come to him and say hi, if he's smart he'll do the rest ;)
     
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