I just wantedt to see how you guys would deal with this... I have a really good friend (guy) who has a girlfriend... My friend and i are really close to where you could consider us brothers and can talk about almost anything with eachother... you know, the really good friend status. Though, i had an 18 week class at school with his gf talking to her for more than an 1 hour a day for the whole period of time. I've hung out with both of them many times either going to the beach or to parties. Over time i became closer to his gf and she became closer to me and eventually I fell in love because she was so amazing and everything about the way she acted and just everything she did was awesome. It's not like a made a choice and i was talking to another really close friend about what i should do... and he said to just try and forget about her... buts its not that easy, at least for me it was'nt because i was insanly in love lol. Its just a really akward situation because i could'nt even hang around both of them together because i just felt so weird and depressed of the situation... well thats about all the details... just wondering what anyone on here would have done... its probably not that big of a problem, but im sure some of you have been in that situation before where you loved someone so much that it hurt you could'nt be closer to them...
yes; i have dealt with this kinda situation before; i was going out with a guy, and my bff liked this guy that liked me. i didn't like the dude at first, but then after we hung out for a while, i developed feelings for him that i pretended not to have because i feared i would hurt my friend because she really liked him. well, when i broke up with the guy i was originally with; the guy that my bff and i both liked, started to flirt with me more than before, and it was crushing my best friend. So, i stayed away from him. it hurt soo bad, i lked him so much but my loyalty was stronger. well, he ended up asking me to a dance as a friend. as we all know, things don't usually work out that way and i ended up dating him. he and i have been going out for almost 6 months. my point being, she likes you too, but she doesn't want to hurt her current boyfriend. you need to talk to her and figure out where she's coming from; it will clarrify things and you'lle feel alittle better about things. hope i have helped you out; if you ever wanna talk, you can pm me anytime. im a great listener!
