ok my boyfriend and i have been together for 4 years since we were only 14. as far as sex goes, we have tried everything. he used to be a very sexul person but lately in the past few weeks it seems that he just has no desire to make love. nothing has changed between us, no fights or problems. just no sex. ill try anything at this point. what can i do to make him want it bad? if guys would like to help me with this that would be awesome.
you sure he's not fucking someone else? It's possible he's just getting bored or something else in his life is getting in the way. DEFINITELY don't pressure him. Just wait and chill it out and see what happens, maybe offer some head or something, I dunno not under the guise' of a precursor to sex, just something to bide the time and get him being sexual again. But seriously... are you sure he's not fucking someone else?
This isn't really a solution, but if you're going to talk about it with him, break the ice with a joke like, "Hey, uh, ever since you got that new girlfriend, i haven't gotten any cock!" I know i'd laugh ^^... Though, if he were messing around, i don't think it would be very funny to him... and then all you'd get is a big awkward pause...
