some sex tips for a first timer

i just dont want to f up on my first time, so someone please gibs meh some tips

thanks

 

Kisses....lots of kisses....and dont rush....

 

Ummm..wait...how old are you ???

 

i am 18, why?

 

Do what feel natural - start with lots of touching, go slow very slow - and most important enjoy it

 

Sorry....we get some 14 and 15 year olds on here....thats why I asked !!

 

ahahaha i forgot about that, sry erzebet
so just lots of kiss's and what ever feels natural?

 

Focus not on what to do, but on the beauty of your partner's body. The body knows what to do of itself. Approach sex with as little pre-conceived ideas as possible.


And be comfortable with your partner as a human being. Humor and laughter always helps when leading up to it. And remember, sex and affection are one and the same. Intercourse, snuggling, and kisses are really part of one affectionate package.

If you're uncomfortable or nervous about something, tell her so!

 

does your partner know you're a virgin? have her guide you if she isn't, if she is then well, its ok if you suck cause she won't know any better

 

Good advice. I wish somebody had told me that. My first time, I was expecting mindblowing, passionate fucking. Boy, was I disappointed. If I had approached sex without any preconceived notions, I probably would have enjoyed it more.

 

Be comfortable, go slow, include foreplay, practice safe sex, and focus on making your partner happy. Just respect your partner and make them feel loved. Lots of kisses during and after. Make sure you hug them and talk to them afterwards. If something goes wrong, don't stress (it is your first time after all). Practice makes perfect .

Chances are it is not going to be great (or even good) sex. Don't worry about that. It takes time -even amongst those of us with lots of experience- to find out what our partners like in bed.

 

ok ok, i know this sounds funny and noobish, but sadly, im scared that ill put it in the wrong hole....lol

 

id sure hope not partner. It cant be too hard, its pretty easy to distinguish a love box from anal. I agree with having a clear mind and no pre-concerived emotions about sex. Make love, dont fuck. Passion.....whatever that means to you. give it to her.
Have fun, be safe, PEACE

J.F. Jazz Odyssey

 

LOL! Don't worry about it, tanker69. It's ok, and she'll tell you if it is the "wrong" hole before you actually get in. I remember in Brazil growing up I've heard a little macho saying many times, "the hole is a little lower", meaning, "things aren't as they appear" because you would assume the vagina is in the area of the pubis...lol.

I had that in mind when I first had sex, and I STILL didn't put it in the wrong hole. Enjoy yourselves...

 

She'll let you know, believe me.

Like others have said, go slow. Kiss her ALL over. Explore her body by sight, touch, and taste, especially if youre worried about going into the wrong hole.

 

Brilliant advice

 

im a virgin and i am not fully devloped my bosdy is not produceing sperm and my penis is 4.5 in. long and im 15 is this normal because every body else i no has already reached and went through puberty thanks...and i just met a girl and we were thining of havibng sex we are bioth virgins i have not shared this info with her yet...

 

Read a book.

Gary Halbert is a good author who wrote this book on having good sex - http://gocheck.giftfunds.hop.clickbank.net/


I haven't read this particular book but he is definatley a good author.

 

erzebet1961 you just like a ghost dressing in black pose your horny pic

 

and verseau miracle i almost see your boob come on remove your clothes