Long distance relationship. bummer =[

ok, so i bet some people will think this is really weird, but i met this very kind, very loving woman on a chat room. This happend last week, we suddenly clicked and bam. I must say i wasn't on there to look for love or anything, i wanted to talk about my problems that i'm having. personal problems. anywho..she sorted me out that night making me feel better. so the next day i was on there and she was there aswell, we got talking again but this time it got a bit...saucy....yeah saucy.........lol a cheesy word but anyway we were talking about sex ect and she was telling me a few 'tricks' she can do with certain things..i didn't think anything of it and nor did she. so i went to bed that night with a weird feeling. next day went back on (i'm not a recluse lol) and we got talking......again, but this time it got more deep and she started telling me her problems and how she felt..well talking over the internet is not very.............realistic. she asked for my number and we got talking on the phone. we spoke for 7 hours straight to each other, first it was about her problems, then we were talking about random things and life asking each other questions...then we got even more deep............and you may think this is going to be weird but we have phone sex sorta thing and she got off 6 times in just a few hours..me not so many but thats because guys can't multiple orgasm. ANYWHO..the very next day i phoned her up and asked how she was..after a 2 hour convo we both admitted we felt something for one another and it's gone on from there..

now today we spoke for a long time again, but it felt more passionate. last night she showed me a few vids on youtube and it got me all teary because i felt something really deep in me...it was like she was telling me these words not the singer (want to know the song? Annie Lennox - Why )..

we have something for each other. it's scary and we live pretty far apart. ok not that far, she lives in nottingham and i live in birmingham, but its not like i can go to her house and visa versa whenever we both want. it's killing me inside. she told me i've made her a much better person and she's done the same to me. people have asked her about her new 'look' and the same has happend to me. i feel loads more better but deep down i miss her loads....help.......................i've never felt like this and i don't know what to do =[

 

Its only an hour and £5/6 on the coach. Have you met her yet? Cos my bigger concern would be that she's a 40 yo sweaty man with a girly phone voice!

 

i can reasure you, she's 100% woman..

 

fyi guys can have multiple orgasms it just takes a little while and effort to train yoru body to do it (and, iirc, its not multiple ejaculations, its orgasm sans ejaculation)

and if tchocky is rigth and shes only an hour away by public transport, then WTF? that barely even counts as long distance. yeah itll be a pain and youll have to meet up on nights when you both have a fair bi tof free time or make weekend trips to see each other but its not like your an ocean apart, yeesh. if you want to make it work you can

 

I regularly have to make that journey, its a bit of hassle but its certainly doable. Its not like its the length the country.

 

i know i know...

but it seems so far..

meh we're meeting up not next week, but the week after..fingers crossed it's going to go ok..................or better than ok...

 

Hey, I just got myself into a long-distance relationship too. We're about 100 miles apart but in about a month that's gonna be multiplied about thirtyfold for a full transcontinental gap between the two of us. Luckily enough we both went to a concert a few days ago and...fooled around quite a bit. ;-)

What can I say? We were making up for lost time.

It's frustrating and I know it's just gonna get worse (we've only been dating for a week, and were "...complicated" for two weeks before that), but keep communicating constantly and put your heart into it, and it might work out. Good luck my friend.

Also you might consider making it an open relationship since the no physical contact thing will likely be easier to bear if you're allowed to hook up with other people.

 

this is soooo sweet =]