free love or slut?

A good male friend/past boyfriend has asked if I would like sex with him for the pure fun of it. Sounds great!- but i'm scared that if anyone found out i would be labelled a slut or a loose woman. I'm thinking I should live by my belief system and forget reputation- but i think that if word got out blokes would only want me for sex, and many people would look down on me.

 

Sounds to me like you are uncomfortable having sex "Just for the fun of it", nothing wrong with that. Part of free love is the freedom to choose who you have sex with and why. I would advise you not to do anything you are uncomfortable with, you will likely regret it.

 

Nothing wrong with having sex for the fun of it, and there's no such thing as a 'slut'!

 

Dont worry what others say honey, just people dont know how to have fun in life! you only live once, but if you're uncomfty still, take it slow

 

That's free love. If you're worried about your reputation or something, talk to him about it. If you're worried about people labeling you as a slut, then prove them wrong. Someone's not a slut if they screw one guy for the fun of it. What makes them a slut is being the village bicycle, being rode by tons of people all the time.

 

If the label is the ONLY thing holding you back, then lift your head high and realize that just because you may have a different ideology than that of the more conservative aspects of society, that does not make you worse for it. If there's something else holding you back, listen to it.

 

everyone will have there own opinion on you no matter what you do or dont do
if you game for a good round of sex do it but it always will have the consiquinces

if you didnt work out before the 2 of you really shouldnt be trying to make it work in the sheets

 

whatever, just do what you need to do to please you. who cares what they think. they don't matter. YOU matter.

 

aww thanks guys. i needed to hear this!! I am still thinking on it, and my decision changes like the wind- but i dont think any decision i make will be the 'wrong' one.

 

don't put any pressure on yourself, postpone the moment for further consideration.

 

Nothing wrong with having sex for sex's own sake. But not all people are equally capable of it. Some become attached to their sex partners even against their own better judgment. Before agreeing to anything, try to predict whether this might happen to you.

 

Well, I personally would look down on you, but I don't know you, so go ahead.